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I have questions about Plan A.
Short background - my husband wants a divorce because he is in love with OW long distance.
I've been doing alot of LB & DJ that helped cause this situation. I'm working on those.
I haven't been meeting his EN for affection, admiration, or conversation. We are currently living apart and will soon be separating.
Should I initiate contact with him and invite him to do things or should I allow him to initiate contact? Currently we have plans to watch the superbowl together on Sunday. Otherwise we probably won't see each other this week unless we run into each other at work (we work together). We have a great sex life & had been having sex until recently. Should I stop having sex with him or not? Should I reach out to him to satisfy his needs for conversation and admiration or will that appear clingy and desperate? Should I call him or wait for him to call?
Please advise!!!!!
Maisy BS 43
WH 36
married 4 years
dated 3 before that
work together
no children
he wants divorce as of 12/15/06
dealing with OW from 11/4/06
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have you exposed... where is he living... how did he meet the OW here's a link to a plan a post.. plan a get grounded here you should be romancing and charming his socks off... if she's long distance...she can't hold a candle to real life... ark
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