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Ok, I work with two people, the Guy is divorced and bar hops everyweek, practally obsessed with findeing someone, and from what i here not to picky. The girl is a really nice person whos H is in the services.
Lately he has been flirting alot with her, and she has recipercated some. There has not been any proof, but people are starting to talk.
Because of what i have been through, i really want to stop it before anything does happen. But they are just people i work with and not really "good friends". So I even feel that it is not my buisness.
Any tips on how to approach it.
Bs (27) - me
FWW (28)
Married: 06/02
D-Day: 11/05
PA: 7/04-10/04 (MOM)
EA: 9/04-D-day (with a different OM)
Daughter born 3-13-07.
Recovery Status: W acting like my W again; I missed her so much.
Read my story
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I would drop a handwritten letter on married woman's desk that simply said:
You know what you are doing with divorced guy (name) is not healthy for your M and is a wrong being perpetuated towards your H. If you two have marriage problems, having an affair is not a solution but instead a death sentence. Get Marriage Counseling before it's too late for your family. People are noticing the dynamics of your relationship with married guy and I heard one person say that they may notify your husband if something doesn't change immediately.
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Excuse me, but even if I didn't know anyone on a train coming down the track, I'd do what I could to prevent a train wreck. Why are you hesitating? Write an anonymous letter, or email, to her if that’s what you want to do, but you might also consider having a chat with her as a co-worker and point out the danger signs you’re seeing. If she’s not a close friend, there wouldn’t be any loss if she decides you’re intruding, right? Whatever your method, do the right thing.
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