Good day to all,
Hmm…..the life of EW(WW). I have been getting a lot of calls and texts from the EW. But most of them EW will ask if there is a possibility that we could get back together. I say no but if she needs help I will be there. There is no point to stay mad at her but that does not mean I want to get back with her. I enjoy talking to her. Funny she said that he treats her like she treated me….She was always very jealous and checked my phone for calls and messages….well it did not bother me there was nothing. Now she said how could I always be so calm….

So last weekend she went to her Grand mothers birthday. She stopped at my place for a coffee and a chat….Can we not work things out and I said no. Then she said o by the way I am 7 weeks pregnant…but she has been asking me for the last few months if we can not get back together.

So now she tells me how the OM is and that he is crazy….. When she told him that she is, he wanted to know if it is really his, OM phones her mother and tell her that he thinks that she is sleeping around…..he saw that there is more sand in the passengers side of the car. He is looking at her cloths for hair and it just goes on….He will try his best to get the child away from her because she is not a good person. He is spying on her….she told me that they are not together anymore….but that he will play a part in the child’s life. EW said that she thinks he is trying to bad mouth her so that he could take the child. Hmm yeah trust between the lovers……

I said that well it is too late to say to her that she was stupid to go and have a child with this OM when she told me months ago that he is crazy and that I should be careful of him he might do something stupid. I did tell her that I feel sorry for the child because he will use the child against her and the poor child to be dragged in this…She said yes she knows…I said that I will help and support as far as I can.

EW phone me yesterday….Now she has made up her mind that she will try to work things out with OM…….I said what you just told me what tool he is….Then she said yes but maybe he gets crazy because she misses me and he can feel it and that he was so hurt in his life before and that he is just afraid…..(yeah here come the fog). I said well if she wants my advice…then she would stay as far away from him as possible get a restraining order until the child is born and then decide what part he should play if any. But she said that we should not keep contact anymore because it is unfair towards him….well she does most of the contact…..but yeah.

In my opinion I can not see any good coming from this.

Van.

she's pretty crazy

Crazy isn't the half of it.

But, Van...why are you still involved in her life? Shouldn't you be getting on with your life and requiring her to get on with hers? You remember...the life she chose for herself? Quit being her support group, bub. You're divorced. Act like it. Now get back in the game and put that phase of your life behind you.