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Well, it was good while it lasted. Just about 15 minutes ago, I found out that I will be in a new position effective Monday. This is a position I have been trying to get ever since I started having problems in my M. My old position was a project engineer where I was responsible for capital projects at the plant that I was assigned. Up until my marital problems, the previous year and a half was spent on the road working on projects at our plants in New Jersey and Kentucky. In my new position I will be a process engineer at our plant in St. Louis. NO MORE TRAVEL!!! Unfortunately, this means I will be out on the plant floor quite a bit more instead of in front of a computer, so I won't be able to post much during the day anymore. We had a good run together, and I thank everyone for the help. I still will be posting updates to my story in the evenings. Good luck to everyone who is fighting for their marriages.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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Jim,
Congratulations - Good Luck in the job and your M and Thank You for being one to look at me.
Hope all is well with you - Best Wishes
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Don't you just hate it when the job stands in the way of posting!!
Best of luck with your new job Jim. No more travel will help greatly with your M.
Your help during the days will be missed.
M2L
ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
DDAY May 06
Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Hey Jim, congrats on the job. As one who you helped out during the days - I say "Thanks" from the bottom of my heart (what is left of it right now anyway).
Keep in touch - you have my number if you ever need to call or vent.
Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B ThreadEphesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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Hey, Jim...congratulations. Little travel = easier to obtain 15 hours/week in building a better marriage. Posting at work is a double edged sword anyway. Sometimes I rush what I write and don't like what I said after I posted something. Anyway, the "day shift" will miss you, but we will be looking for a post or two in the evenings. You've helped a lot of people here, just because you grasped the program right away, and started passing the "word" along as soon as you got it. You make sure working on your own marriage remains a priority !!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> SD
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
***You can do anything with time and money...but remember...money won't buy you time!***
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My sinceret gratitude for all of your posts to date Jim, they have helped me tremendously to make it this far in the early stages of the worst time of my life.
Your plethora of posts will certainly be missed, I'm glad to hear you will still be around and keeping us updated on your story. I wish you and your family much happiness and the very best!
Jay
BS (Me) - 33
WW - 31
Married 14 years, together 17
Daughter: 16 yrs old
Separated: 12/29/06
D-Day: 2/2/07, EA/PA With Co-Worker
Plan B Started: 3/6/07
D filed by WW: 4/18/07
Olive Branch offered (Plan B resumed after): 8/8/07
R Attempt by WW: 9/1/07
NC Established: 9/4/07
NC Broken: 9/5/07, 9/6/07
Status: Plan B, Pt. II (9/10/07)
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Congratulations on the job, Jim!
Just remember.....there are 16 other hours in the day!!!
Grin.
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Just remember.....there are 16 other hours in the day!!! Who works an 8 hour day anymore? I'll take your job.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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Jim:
You have given a lot of yourself to this site helping people. Giving back is the best thing in life. You've done a great thing!
Thanks
H (37) Me
ww(37)
Married 10 years
2 DD's 6 and 9.
Together for 17 years.
D-Day on EA -Oct 28, 2006
Second D-Day 12-08....Divorce in Process
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Jim:
You have doubled me up in posts in a shorter amount of time!
And I thought I could talk!
Good luck, and work that recovery....
LG
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Jim, I'm always amazed when I see your age at the bottom of your posts. Sheesh, if you're this mature at 26, you're going make one wise old codger. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Sorry if that sounded ageist but when you're 52 (like I am) and the cops look like schoolboys, 26 seems a long, long time ago.
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hey Jim, did you ever call Dr. Harley's show?
Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B ThreadEphesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
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Thank you Jim for posting on my thread. Good luck!
Married 23 yrs
WW-46
Me- 47
DD18
DD11
Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006
Too many other D-Days to remember
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Congrats on the new job.
God bless.
~ Marsh
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Congratulations, Jim!
Thanks for checking in on my thread and the advice you took the time to give; will be looking for your sparse updates. I, too, have had to slow down on posting (a work no-no), but I felt compelled to do so this week, due to MASSIVE changes in my sitch. I'll be posting at night, too, so I'll see you there...
Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
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hey Jim, did you ever call Dr. Harley's show? Nope, been kinda busy this week.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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Congrats on the new position Jim. I also wanted to say thanks for helping me out. Good Luck.
Scotty
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Jim,
Congrats on the new gig!!!
Thanks for all the help.
BS - 36 (me)
WS - 25
D-Day - 01/08/07(EA), 02/02/07 (PA)
Divorce Final - 09/14/07
"It's only the fairy tale they believe"
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Congrats on the job Jim! Thx for your help in my threads, will be sorry I'll see less advise from you. But less travel will give you more time with your WS, so hopefully things will get better! Good luck!
Dev
BS - 31 (me)
WW - 29
M ~2 years, No kids
DDay - 2nd Dec 2006
Exposed - 15th Jan 2007
NC started - 14th Jan 2007
NC broken 23rd Jan 2007
NC broken many times since
Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"
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Jim,
Congrats and good luck in the new job. Keep checking in from tme to time & let us know how you're doing.
Mark
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