i am just wondering if anyone else is going thru this with their spouse. one week he tells me that he loves me.
conversation
me:how are you doing?
him: okay i guess just alot of drama at home.
me: well you know how to fix it dont you?
him: i know what is right and i know what i need to do but i cant.
me: i said well maybe you do love her?( what the ****** was i thinking)
him: no no i am in love with someone else.
me: what? there is another woman?( saying it kidding around)
him: no.you know who i am talking about.
me: no not really.
him: you ! crazy woman
me: i said well actions sorta speak louder than words right now. as much as i love hearing it and wanting to believe it with all of my heart. the situation still has not changed and i dont see you doing anything to change it.
him: i know but believe me i do love you.
me: well you know i love you looking at this mess and i am still talking to you with out fighting.
him:i know and i am so confused. when i am with you and our daughter i dont want to leave. it feels right
me: so why do you?
him: i dont know. i just dont know
well i have to go we are getting busy here at the store. will you call me tomorrow.
me: i said if you want. talk to you later.


we have had numerous calls like this but yet it seems like he has not made no attempt to get rid of her.
(the whole story on post "state of confusion")
any body have any suggestions on how to win him over completely i just tired of him sitting on the fence all the time!!!! i dont what to suggest she keeps him on a tight leash.

he is cake eating.

Any more confusing convos?