An ABC 20/20 story airing right now just referred to this site. The whole 20/20 show is called "revenge"...turn it on now.

I'm posting it for discussion website unseen.

He gave examples in the story such as:

Dogpoop under the door latches on your X's car.

Uncooked fish in the exhaust tailpipe.

Here is the Link ---> GET REVENGE ON YOU X


Mr. Wondering

I apologize for some of the graphic ideas on the getrevenge website but I think some people just may want to utilize it's services.

You can anonymously send postcards (I think from England) stating all sorts of hilarious things. Much of it is cheap shots but sometimes in Plan B it might not be so bad to bring reality to the wayward spouse in the workplace. Though they may believe it's from you they will never really know who it is from. Better yet, a good way to go after the OP...especially the OM's who often throw in the towel when the relationship with your wife just gets too complicated.

You may even have a friend actually go to the website and send it thus insuring you have deniability and no credit card records should you ever be deposed on the subject.

Mr. Wondering

It’s a shame this guy never found MB!

I would never recommend this site to someone in Plan B – or even Plan D, for that matter. IMVHO, all you are doing by taking part in these revenge activities is lavishing more and more attention on your ex.

When in fact, you should be forgetting about them, and lavishing that attention on yourself.

Instead of wiping dog poop on your ex’s door handles, volunteer at your local cat and dog shelter for a day. Or take your own dog for an extra walk each day, or… get yourself a dog!

Instead of fish in your ex’s tailpipe, make yourself a delicious fish dinner, using a recipe you’ve never tried before. Or decide you will eat less read meat and more fish, for your health’s sake.

I don’t think that it’s helpful even for those on MB whose spouses leave them for the OP to resort to these kinds of tactics. Counting myself as one of them, sure I felt like it at times – most of the time, actually, about a year ago – but I always kept in my mind that the best revenge is living well.

Even the guy who runs the site seems to admit that – he is happily remarried after his first wife left him for the OP, and his ex wife is jealous as h*ll.

I sure don’t like what my ex and the OW did to me and my children. But I know I am better than them, and that they don’t deserve any part of me. Playing tricks on them would be handing over a large part of me over to them.

Just how I feel.

Alph.

Well one of my stories include the E-mail tactic. It worked! LOL!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Ow was mad but couldn't really prove it was me.

RE: OW created many e-mails for the WS to use. She thought she was clever but WS (stupid as they are), left it open on our home computer so I just mozied in and send an e-mail to that addy which the OW would read (she was nuts because he would e-mail her from that addy but since she didn't trust him, she would check up on him too!

Of course my e-mail just make her more suspicious and that was my goal....to keep her head spinning and in time, the Ow drove herself nutso. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

No regrets!!!

L.

Look at this. Just how sick can a guy be.....

www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,250137,00.html

You are going to have to copy and paste again. Sorry...

Have you seen Pepperband's post on turdland vs. wifeland?

I gave my WH two years to choose between turdland and wifeland. He wanted both. Now he has turdland.

I don't need revenge. I need a life.

After 5 years of putting up with turd, I've finally cleaned house. I'm getting my life back. My reward for all I've been through? I've learned. I'm a little wiser. I think that I am a better mom and perhaps I've even become a lttle more compassionate. And best of all, I have a clean slate. No interest and no time for that revenge smut.

I've got a life now.

I think that if you do the best you can to save your family you will be proud of yourself. If your spouse ruins your family and hurt people I believe that he or she somewhere deep inside will feel really, really bad.

I don't know if you can call it revenge but you will certainly be able to look back on your life and know that you did the right thing.