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hello to all-i am new,married 25 years,2 grown kids,husband found a"wonderful "mistress,she is even willing to share him.it makes my heart so heavy.hard to go to work,to smile for the kids.boy does it hurt.any pearls would be appreciaited.thanks,p
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i'm only 2 weeks out, so i don't really have any advice, but i'm sure some people will.
i just wanted to say i am sorry. i know how badly you hurt.
also, you may want to post on the general questions board. more people seem to post there.
EA ??/?? - ??/??
PA 1.06.07 - 2.14.07
D-day #1 1.21.07
D-day #2 2.15.07
WH 27
BW (me) 26
DD 13 months old
I exposed A to OWH on 2.5.07
H still has contact with OW through work
Status: (me) unsure if the fight is worth it
Status: (WH) confused, but hopeful
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Welcome to marriagebuilders. It is a great place to be under the circumstances.
The starting place is Plan A, so read all about it for your starting place.
Plan A includes exposing the affair to anyone who could be of help. Do they work together?
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no,they dont work together but she lives only 13 miles from our house...and she is financially loaded,travels all over the world,just a great kinda gal....i am working on plan a-husband wants to work things thru but he sure does miss her(and my heart isnt breaking)i am being quiet,continue to work on my happiness and what i used to love doing bur have put on hold when we started a family.i am planning on getting the motorcycle that i have wanted,this scares him a bit,not sure how to take my "discovering myself" none the less-this sure does hurt tremendously,especially when he asked if he could still see her on the side.talk about having cke and eating it too.help.
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thankk you.i am sorry for the hurt that you are experiencing.i say"poke me in the eyes with a hot dagger"that would be less painful.i will try the general forum-thank you
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Well yes it will.Its been 4 months for me. wife did it.Married 26 years.cried 4 month you need to let it out, anyway I did.But it is getting better.It never felt like it was but it is.This page helped me lots when I was feeling down.I really feel for you its hard.dont for get to eat,and take care of your self.I pray alot it helps.
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Over time it will be better. Cant change over night but as the days turn to months and months into years it will get better. me and my H did it to each other. married for 10 yrs. Need to talk .. cry... anything you can to let it out but go wild... Hugs
Married 1996 4 wonderful children 16, 13 *OC*, 10, 7 FWW 30's FWH 30's My dday 1-2007 he came clean to me My story New beginings
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