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Re: H knows I exposed A to OWH - he is very mad!
forgivingone #1821026 02/05/07 11:25 AM
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I would avoid that sort of R talk at the moment if I were you.

Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste of death but once ~Shakespeare
Re: H knows I exposed A to OWH - he is very mad!
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I would avoid that sort of R talk at the moment if I were you.

we're actually getting more into his relationship with God at this point. i can't stop the ball once it has started rolling, but i do appreciate your input :-)

EA ??/?? - ??/?? PA 1.06.07 - 2.14.07 D-day #1 1.21.07 D-day #2 2.15.07 WH 27 BW (me) 26 DD 13 months old I exposed A to OWH on 2.5.07 H still has contact with OW through work Status: (me) unsure if the fight is worth it Status: (WH) confused, but hopeful
Re: H knows I exposed A to OWH - he is very mad!
forgivingone #1821028 02/05/07 11:44 AM
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we're actually getting more into his relationship with God at this point.

Or lack thereof. Don't let him use God as a shield.

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ww(37)
Married 10 years
2 DD's 6 and 9.
Together for 17 years.
D-Day on EA -Oct 28, 2006
Second D-Day 12-08....Divorce in Process
Re: H knows I exposed A to OWH - he is very mad!
forgivingone #1821029 02/05/07 11:50 AM
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he and i are still texting back and forth. he seems to be somewhat over his anger, and we are getting into some deeper things, like when he was last truly happy.

it sucks to do it over text, but we're both at work, so...

thanks for all of the advice guys!
i will definitely keep yall updated.

I wouldn't feel bad about talking via IM's or whatever...we did that a lot, I was at home, and he was at work. I think it was helpful because it allowed us to really think about what we wanted to say and state it clearly and also, made me feel more comfortable about saying how I was really feeling, than I would've face to face. Just as long as it doesn't replace actual face to face communication.

Good Luck

Me, 43, 2 online EA's 2006
DH, 45, 2DDs, 16 & 9
Married 23 years.
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