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Re: The Infidelity Diet
Serane #1821132 02/06/07 12:51 AM
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Hi Serane,

I see you're new, too. Did you register with MB for this thread topic, too?

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lost last 5 pounds within days

So how did you lose the previous pounds and how many total? Did you lose them on purpose or was it due to marital stress or other stresses? I couldn't find your sitch (situation details).
Re: The Infidelity Diet
NotSleeping #1821133 02/06/07 02:32 AM
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My infidelity diet is by no means a success story. I'm 5' 2" and normally weigh 105-110 lbs. I dropped to a dangerously low 88 lbs. I chewed and chewed my food and couldn't swallow it. Soup was the only nourishment I could really get down. AD therapy put me up to 115 lbs -- more than I have ever weighed outside of pregnancy, but still by no means a bit overweight.

Now divorced, off the ADs since August/September, I have settled back to a steady 110 lbs.

Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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Re: The Infidelity Diet
Hardlesson #1821134 02/06/07 03:03 AM
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I'm 6'4". 205 on Dday. Dropped to about 190 in 10 days, down to 182 30 days in. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

Bought a home gym in October. Was at 200 but waist an inch smaller and neck an inch bigger when my health issues started and I had to stop working out. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Hope to get back to it soon.

Currently 196. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Mark
Re: The Infidelity Diet
Hardlesson #1821135 02/06/07 08:02 AM
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I lost 17 lbs. in 3 weeks b/c of my WH...I don't eat when I am stressed or depressed. I lost my appetite completely.

"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07
Re: The Infidelity Diet
Hardlesson #1821136 02/06/07 08:55 PM
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I dropped 50 lbs in the last 5 months. It came off quickly... couldn't eat or sleep. Now I'm been stable. Although I only have to lose 10 more and my weight will match my license.

Not the best way to do it but at least I feel like I look really good.

Sh01

BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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