I took the survey frog-thanks for the heads up...

Many of the questions were not phrased right, IMO...For example, I would be EQUALLY upset about an EA or a PA, and it makes you choose one or the other...I KNOW what they are looking for there, the typical that men are more upset about PAs and women are more upset about EAs...I disagree with that though...

Are you gonna remind us to go back and check the results during the week of April 16th? Pretty Please??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W

Just completed it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

MRS,

I will probably forget. The reason the post was so short is I wanted to post it. Then I was about ready to get side tracked so instead of trying to remember later I added the link. LOL.

I think everyone here should take the survey. Yes some of the questions were not worded rith.

I like the question about your S cheating on you. I think maybe in this type of sitch it people will be more open.

I don't know but I think everyone here should take the time and take the survey.

Thanks! I just took it.

I took it. Then I showed it to my FWW and she took it as well. She shared most of her answers with me, though I did see her hesitate on some of them - my guess was that she was trying to decided whether to be truthful or to answer in a way that wouldn't hurt my feelings.

In the case of one particular question - how did her partner (me) find out about the A, she first choose the "I confessed to him" answer. I was taken aback by this (my clear memory of D-Day was that I eventually got it out of her by confronting her about the nature of her relationship with the OM), and I let her know what I remembered about D-Day and how I felt about her answer.

The one answer that she wouldn't share with me was the one where the fidelity of her parents was questioned. Apparently her parents' M suffered from some form of infidelity as well.

Two answers we both agreed on: we don't like our current relationship, and believe we could be happier with someone else.

Posted. ya some of the wording was off. I had trouble in the agree/disagree section. If i wasn't dealing with the issues surrounding the A, i would be more apt to agree or strongly agree. But because i was cheeted on I feel that anytime anyone asks it is disagree, but i know that is just bitterness and not nessisarly my actuall feelings.

Damb A's really though you for a loop. I just hope one day my head gets screwed back on.

thanks for the post.