I am so sick of arguing. H had been hiding phone calls from me and I found out that they were to an old friend of ours who I didn't have any idea he had been talking to. Now he has gone in and put a lock on our cell phone account so I can't check up on him. He tells me that I am "looking for something to gripe about" and that he wants to keep me from making myself worry over nothing. He says this person called him to know why I didn't talk to her anymore and the other time was to wish us best wishes on the birth of our child. I don't care, I don't think he should have hid it from me. Well today I asked him for the new password to our account because I am wanting to upgrade my cell phone and he refuses to give it to me. He says I don't need to upgrade my phone and I just want to snoop around. Does this sound to anyone else like he is just trying to hide himself? I don't know what to do about him. It is always something. We have been together 8 years and I just want us to be happy again. We have alot of recent stress and it feels like a 10,000 lb weight laying on top of me. He doesn't seem to care about anything else other than hiding everything he does. Is he cheating on me? I honestly think I would know and I do not feel like he is at all, besides this person lives 3 hours away, but still.
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That's exactly how I found out that my husband was cheating on me. One day I looked on his phone and saw my best friends number on it. I asked her about it and she said that she needed someone to talk to because she was lonely and I was more busy at work than he was. She didn't work. Well, I let my husband and her husband know that I was going to check the cell phone records when they came in. She had been hiding hers from her husband. Wow, I couldn't believe what I saw - 10 calls a day back and forth. Finally they both cracked and admitted they were having an affair for 5 months. He's definitely hiding something and I don't think it's very pretty.