For those of you familiar with my saga, the OWH never even got the e-mail I sent him yesterday. he did not check his e-mail today.
So, he had been suspicious just as I had. His WW (the OW) had admitted to kissing my H. He was upset, but wanted to try and work it out. She told him she just wasn't happy. Probably the whole ILYBINILWY thing.
Tonight he told his W I need her (my) cell phone number. She gives in and gives it to him.
He calls me, and I tell him everything. He tells me what the OW (his wife) has been telling him.

I believe yall were right. She had no intention of ever telling him about the extent of the PA.

Also, he is pretty sure they will get a D. I feel so bad for him, but i am also so glad that I was able to let him know what happened. He said he had been sick for weeks.

He also said that he will not inform their employer, b/c he doesn't want my FWH to lose his job. The bad thing is, since they won't be staying together, she will not be quitting her job. So the job-hunt begins.

I told him to let me know if he can get any info out of his WW about her intentions with my H. Such as, if she plans to go after him.

So anyway, I am just so glad this is out.

Thanks to all of you for listening to me. Hopefully our real recovery can begin soon.

FO

Wow, FO! See that! Congrats for having the courage to go ahead w/the e-mail. Now he can make sure his W stays away from your H.


It's going to be a long road. Please utilize this place as much as possible through the journey. Praying for you.

thanks for the prayers. i think my FWH may be going through withdrawal or something. he was much more distant last night than he had been. i will definitely be on here every day and keep yall updated.
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