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Geez... think every BS has been there when you think of the worst things to do to the OP. But thank God most of us only think and don't do it


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Wow . . . so a MOW tried to kidnap/kill her OM's girlfriend. Who would have guessed that this description would fit a *space shuttle astronaut* and not some trailer trash on the Jerry Springer show?

This certainly shows that intelligence, education and accomplishment are *no* protection against the insanity that cheating brings about.

Clara Harris, the successful Houston dentist who ran over and killed her WH with her car, is another example of this.

Wonder if this MOW astronaut just got a little too close to the mother ship on her last trip into space?
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I feel sorry for her.

6 months in orbit on the International Space Station can get to a girl sometimes, I guess.

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But this woman was cheating on her husband - she was a WW off the deep end of the scale. Shipman was the only legit female in this triangle as far as being eligible to date a single man.


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I didn't say she wasn't wrong.
I still feel sorry for her.
She threw away so much for nothing.

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Try this for a change of looks.

View the NASA Publicity picture: Wikipedia on Astronaunt

And scroll down to see the Booking Picture:

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Hm...

What I think she needs, rather than imprisonment, is space...


...without the helmet! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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Ah, yes...

Space...

The FINAL frontier...

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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I feel bad for her H and kids. Here they thought she was a HERO! Now they'll have to go through all that cr*p.


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For anyone interested, this is now a BIG story on all the cable networks. CNN carried her initial court appearance live this morning. Look for more to unfold.

I'd just like to know what this astronaut's husband and three kids think about all this.
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[color:"red"] Nowak raced from Houston to Orlando wearing diapers in the car so she wouldn't have to stop to go to the bathroom [/color]

I'm hoping Star*fish posts about how this particular aspect ties in with the neurochemistry of adultery

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

heII hath no fury like a WW scorned

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[color:"red"] Nowak raced from Houston to Orlando wearing diapers in the car so she wouldn't have to stop to go to the bathroom

Apparently the shuttle astronauts wear diapers during liftoff and re-entry, so I guess she was accustomed to this. Using her experience and education to her advantage, obviously. Can't wait to see how this one turns out. Talk about workplace affairs!
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The Mothership indeed!!


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Can you imagine what SNL and the late night shows are going to do w/ this story???

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short threadjack

Marsh send me an email please at justkeepgoin47@aol.com

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Nowak told police that her relationship with Oefelein was "more than a working relationship but less than a romantic relationship," according to an arrest affidavit. Police officers recovered a love letter to Oefelein in her car.


Less than a romantic relationship.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Her foolish actions and desperation have consequences, unfortunately for her H and kids. I wonder if they had no clue and this caught them completely by surprise? I did notice it was her NASA boss who made the trip to FL, not her H. Don't blame him, don't think I'd go get her either.

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And guess what? She will never fly again!


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A jail official says a NASA astronaut is being charged with attempted first-degree murder in alleged kidnapping attempt involving a romantic rival.


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