OMG! My heart is racing a million miles per minute. The husband had to fly out of the country because his grandfather is dying. I am checking his Myspace, email etc because that is part of our pact towards working on the marriage. He knows and agrees that he is going to be totally transparent.

Out of the freaking blue I see an email saying he has a friend's request. I go to check it out and it's OW from when we were dating! Yikes! My hands start to shake, my heart pounds, I am sure my blood pressure is sky rocketing.

All the old emotions flood back. I feel like I was thrown back to 2002 all over again.

I hate that b*tch with a burning passion. Only time has lessened my anger and now that she has tried to re-establish contact I am livid! I want to go to her job and drag her out of there by her hair.

After the A she claimed that it was he who was always trying to contact her and how she didn't care a thing about him. She claimed that they never had sex and how fine her man was.

So I sent her an email and her boyfriend (I think this was the guy she was seeing at the time) an email.

I sent it from my husband's Myspace and here it is copied and pasted.

Hi there,

This is SB's wife. In short I am the old gf from way back when who threatned to come to Brooklyn and beat you up cuz I was so mad at you for f*cking my boyfriend. Well I am over that and we are married now. I realize that it was not 100% your fault because you didn't make him come to Brooklyn and take his d*ck out of his pants. In short now that we are married I would appreciate if you make no further attempts to re-establish a friendship with him. I am going to make 100% sure that he sees this message to you. I guess in the end the choice to re-establish contact with you will be his. However, I am letting you know that I am aware of you contacting him despite the fact that you told me that it was HE that was always harrassing and calling you and all of that.

Have a blessed day,


Next to the BF

I guess you are MG's man. In short I am SB's wife. To make a long story short when me and SB were dating he cheated on me with MG. This was around the end of '02 or the beginning of '03. Now I don't know if you two were together at the time and it's not my intent to cause trouble. I just want to let you know that I would appreciate it if she dissapeared from his life and does not try to re-establish a friendship.

Thank you.

Email address inserted

I am so mad! I am insulted and offended beyond belief that this trollop would dare try to contact my husband. On his friend's page I am number one and it says clearly that he is married. He has pics of the entire family on his page and clearly stated that he is a married man and only interested in saying hello to old friends from school. The tramp how dare she!

Anyway, I am not lying when I say that the husband will see all of the messages that go back and forth.

WOW, I guess you told her!!

Please explain why your H needs or wants to have a Myspace site?

Thanks,

We both have Myspace pages genuinely because we wanted to get in touch with old friends from HS. I moved around a lot after school and lost contact with several very good female friends and I used Myspace to find them. He did the same and everything was cool until this.

I am seriously considering asking him to close the account and of course I will do the same.

Ms. Ho hasn't sent another message back and I know she saw it because her status is that she is currently online. As for her bf from what I discern on her page they are in hiatus.

Now from what I know of in the past she and this guy have a rocky relationship and he cheats on her. So what she does when she is in hiatus is call up old bf's to "comfort" her until he takes her back.

This is what happened (with FWH total consent so he is NOT off the hoook at all) when she and the then bf did what they did. Her bf was cheating on her and she decided to get revenge by having sex with my bf. So now that she is single or on hiatus she is up to her old tricks again but not if I have any say in it!

She is so silly, she has her place of work listed on her page and I have already got the address and phone number. If she chooses to try and be cute and pursue this because I made her mad I will make her life a living ******.

I sent an email to my spouse which he will see later on tonight.

Was checking out the Myspace page and hotmail account. Guess who decided to come back from the dead and send you a friend's invite? MGL. Now you know that I am hotter than hot and madder than mad. I feel like going straight to her job and kicking her mother _______ a**. Oh, I know that you were complicit in the deception but that isn't what I am mad about because we worked out that issue.

What I am hot about is the fact that after all of these years when she claimed that it was you who was harrasing her and she said how you would call her ten times a day and she didn't give a flying **** about you cuz her man was so fine....she decides to look you up? Even though your page clearly states that you are married.

Well if that isn't total disrespect then I don't know what is. I said my piece and I guess it really is up to you if you want to be in contact with her (though that would be a serious problem for me)

This is a position that I do not want to be in but here I am.
I don't know what is going on lately it seems like the devil has decided to focus on us for a bit. Bad stuff has been happening all month long and it's only the 6th.

I am going to go pray and open up the Bible later on tonight cuz something's gotta give.

Anyhow, I am telling you what I did and left the message I sent to her and her man in your Inbox because I want all parties to know that I know you KNOW.