Does the pre-nup spell out what bills you pay, and what bills he pays?
If you are asking how the pre-nup will affect you if you divorce him, three lawyers have already given you the answer.
In MB terms, it sounds like you have a need for financial support that is not being met. Have you and your husband agreed on a budget?
And frankly this part -
He owns a car dealership and he won't even let me buy a car from him at cost-with no profit!
sounds very odd. He wants to sell you a car?
I'm just some schmuck on a messageboard, but there is something going on between the two of you. And you mention -
I work full time, and I cannot quit even though my husband is a millionaire or I will have no savings for the future...
It sounds, at least to me, very much like you are planning a future that does not include your husband. Is that the case? If so, it is possible that there is a vicious circle going here - your husband doesn't want to give you any money because he thinks you are getting ready to leave him, and you are getting ready to leave him because he won't give you any money.
I have only your post to go by, but you don't sound much like a gold digger to me. And the financial "arrangement" you and your husband have does not seem (to say the least) to be working. Is it possible for you to re-negotiate, not the pre-nuptial agreement - that is a done deal - but your current financial relation?
I hesitate to say that he should be supporting you in the manner to which you would like to become accustomed, especially since his wealth seems to be rather recently acquired, but your expectations and his are clearly not in sync.
How was he while you were dating? I don't how else to put it, but did he seem to be a cheapskate and a workaholic then?
I'm guessing this is not the first marriage for him, either. Which leads me to ask, how sure are you that he has as much money as you say? He may own several businesses, and still be leveraged to the eyebrows. If that is the case, he may be working all the hours you say to keep the businesses solvent. And even though it may be unfair, your husband may see even reasonable requests from you for some kind of financial support as yet another demand on him, when he is already stretched. If you see what I mean.
The bottom line is that I don't think you are being unreasonable, but I have no idea what your husband's take on the situation might be.
You need to work out a new budget, at least, and in a way that reassures your husband that you are not planning on leaving, and taking him to the cleaners.
Regards,
rs0522