Well I did it. I actually wrote him a letter. Nothing like the ones that I haven't written but would never send.<BR> Today I got a call from the video rental place in my old hometown about an overdue video. Since I hadn't lived there since the first of Aug. I figured it was his.<BR> So I thought I would write him about it. Very nicely of course. I just told him that he had a video out and that they had called me about it. I told him that I would apreciate it if he took care of the matter. <BR> I then went on to tell him how great the doors looked that he fixed at our house. Told him I was having no luck selling the house. ( a little guilt since I'm making the payments and no job.) I told him that I sstill cared and loved him. Also that I would like to see him. Then I let him know when our son's next dr. appt. would be. Told him again I would always love him then signed it love.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Good for you, SDS!!!!<P>What perfect timing to get that call from the video store....makes you wonder about the "plan" that God has going on, doesn't it!!!!<P>Now make sure that you don't set your expectations too high....H might be shocked to hear from you after so long and add his lack of reality to that and he might not know what to say.....<P>The next step would probably be a follow up in a couple of weeks if you haven't heard from him....<P>HUGS and an ATTAGIRL!!!!!<P>Sheba

Yay!!! You made it through the first one!!<P>I'm proud of you.<P>Keep it up.<P>Lori