Plans A & B. There is a lot of confusion at times and debate. Misapplication of these plans often add to the confusion.

Below I have listed some questions we have discussed over the years. I have given my comment on the 1st one and if any would like to share their POV, please do so.

Experiences and helpful suggestions are welcomed. I am hoping this will help some of the BS struggling to stay afloat in the A sewer they have been thrown into.

[color:"blue"]Is there really a right way vs a wrong way for everyone? [/color]

Orchid: No. But there is a correct direction and good outline to help everyone. Each person's plan should be customized to fit their situation. The general path or purpose is the same. So it is NOT one plan fit all. Just the same name is often used.


[color:"blue"]What is the true purpose of Plan A and Plan B? [/color]

[color:"blue"]What goals can a BS keep in mind to keep focused while in plan A or B? [/color]

[color:"blue"]Why is it important to even have a plan? [/color]

[color:"blue"]When a plan is executed well, what should be the true expected results? [/color]

[color:"blue"]After plan A is completed what are the next logical plans available?

[color:"blue"]After plan B is compelted what are the next logica plans availalbe? [/color]

[color:"blue"]Has all of this experience changed your outlook on life? [/color]

L.

Has all of this experience changed your outlook on life?

Definitely. If not for the affair, or at least the discovery, I'd have continued on my path, oblivious to the fact that my selfishness was hurting my wife and children. I would have coasted along, blindly thinking everything was fine, when suffering was occurring due to my own ambition and self-centeredness.

My children would not have gotten their father back. I would not have gone back to my FATHER.

I still hurt every day; after three years the sting is still as fresh as the day of discovery. But I am thankful. My Father used it to teach me a valuable lesson; one I will never forget.