Go figure..... AJ does a movie and a bit more with BP. BP\ is the WS. AJ claims no R, no sex since BP is still married, 'we are just friends'.


BP's W (JA) files the D and it's done.... a few months later but it's done (October 2005).

Shortly a baby is born (May 2006). How can you be just friends and then conceive, have a baby all before? Hm......
7 months after the divorce is finalized? Hm...

During this time, there is another adoption and A & B go globe trotting around the world helping all kinds of people.

A's mom is sick with cancer and recently passed. Not before requesting A to marry B? oh but she can't....they were just 'friends'....right?

So what's all the fuss about? My point is that despite all the good things done, all the sadness due to family illness and death, all the other events in their lives.....A still retains the title of being an OW. BP isn't a WS anymore but he still has the stench of one.

Can A & B ever cover over their wicked A deed by other good deeds? If they can, so can the other bad people who give to charity and do other things while STILL commiting crimes.

Everytime I hear or see A & B in the news, the thing that comes to my mind is not the good things they are attempting to do but the bad things they have plastered all over their faces.

The sad thing is that the children who live with them have to smell that stench. They might be used to it by now but it still stinks.

....another smelly one is JR, that one went to far as to wear a shirt attempting to smear the BS' name. Now JR has twins with another one the way? Sorry....can't be happy for her, because she is still an OW....now she is a MOW.

Is this the stuff Soaps are made from? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

JMHO,
L.

Well if this is even a question, my response is that an affair can never be legitimised - passage of years, production of children notwithstanding.

So yes they all carry the stench of their adulterous lives with them.

BK,

I appreciate your response. I guess I am getting sick at the media playing up all the 'nice' things AJ does....when in reality, she is still an OW.

I don't sense remorse on her side for her actions and that leads me to conclude she feels justified by doing other good deeds. That makes her still an OW and a scary one who has children's lives entrusted to her. Why the UN has made her a rep? What's wrong with that pix? Imagine the message being sent out to the world?

'Have OW? Make 'em a UN Rep!' <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

JMHO,
L.

LOL Orchid - I'm in complete agreement.

She IS unremorseful

SHE IS an OW
She IS as entitled as they come as is BP.

DUH

LOL

Am I too late? Where can I find an OW with $$? Put me on the lista de espera!

LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Those gals advertise.....they say they have beaucou moola. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

I know of one case personally where the OW e-mailed the BS to say that she was going to make the WS: 'healthier, happier and wealthier than he had ever been with me.' <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

My reply to her was to go ahead and here's his current bills. Dumb bunny..... (PBR - psycho babble rabbit).

My research found out that while OW claimed to make more than me, her $$ came from her H and her refinancing her home. So I asked the WS for the amount he would sell his family for.....you know blood $$. He said we were priceless. Ha! I knew that was a lie so I started throwing $$ out there he wouldn't answer, then I told him to go get it from his 'wealthy OW'. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> That was a laugh. Seems OW didn't have enough to buy a 'priceless' family. Ha!! I started at 100 mill and went all the way down to 87K (very close to the price of that refi amounts - LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> ). Then all of a sudden, OW stopped claiming t/b sooo wealthy. LOL!!! The next thing the OW had her eye on was my insurance policy (or so I strongly suspected - <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> ).

So they are out there, but what they say vs what they really have can be totally opposite.

OWs make even $$ look worthless. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

L.

T-shirt? What T-shirt? What did it say?

And now, a real post. Rather than just a Question.

My STBXH's OW is a career woman, earning mucho dinero. Her H earns even more than she does.

My STBXH used to use the argument that it was crazy to think that a woman with such wealth and advantage would jeopardize everything to be interested in STBXH and have an affair or leave her H for mine.

I echo you, I also knew that the emotions override everything sensible and common sense when they take over.

But - just venting. It's all over but the final decree now.

Oh, and the OW? She is still M'd to her H. And my STBXH is one of her little male harem.

:-(