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With my FWW.
I just wanted to scare you all and share that. You know I have found that my W and I have some of our best converstaions through email.
I usually have an email waiting for her when she gets into the office in the morning then we send them back and forth. When we have a chance.
Just a way to A proof your M. I am with her at work even though I am not there.
Usually she tells me how lucky she has to have someone that still sends nice thoughts during the day. She actually says they make her day.
So next time you think you don't have time remember to send an email or an IM saying you love them and you care.
BS 38
FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby
When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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You had me going for a minute.
I'm happy things are going well in your M.
troubled_water
BS/ (me)
WS/(H) EA 3+ yrs?, PA 1 yr?
D-Day 2006
children grown
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LOL! Gosh Darnit! I had a whole lecture brewin' in my head...
That is a good idea...we do that sometimes too.
Me, 43, 2 online EA's 2006
DH, 45, 2DDs, 16 & 9
Married 23 years.
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I was thinking about wringing your neck, frog...
I hope that you both know how wonderful it is for those of us going through the recovery process to hear about a good life on the other end of things.
Good work showing your love for your wife!
Me-BS-38
Married 1997; son, 8yo
Divorced April 2009
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Thanks.
I thought you guys would want to kill me. LOL.
Really it is something I didn't really think that much about. For a while I would send her love quotes in the morning.
Now I just like to send her stuff and she sends me stuff. Just nice words.
To be honest I want her to be thinking about me at work. I want it to be that if another guy walks up and wants to talk to her the first thought is about how great I am.
I didn't realize how much it meant to her but when we were in MC he asked if I had done anything different this week and I said no. She said how I was sending the quotes.
Now I am not the most romantic guy in the world but I like doing it.
I love my FWW. So it makes it easy.
BS 38
FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby
When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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