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"Sunshine enemas" vs behaving in a civilized manner.
#1827788 02/20/07 07:11 AM
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I think the subject says it all, but I just have to laugh out loud when, OF ALL PEOPLE, 10Swords "Tense Words" is accused of blowing sunshine enemas.

I have been one of the most obnoxious tell-it-like-I-see-it mofos on these boards since I got here, frequently admonished for my blunt tactics.

hmph.

I have learned that "calling it as you see it" is much more effective when done with tact.

Saved the marriage.

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Re: "Sunshine enemas" vs behaving in a civilized manner.
Mates4Life #1827789 02/20/07 04:22 PM
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I think the subject says it all, but I just have to laugh out loud when, OF ALL PEOPLE, 10Swords "Tense Words" is accused of blowing sunshine enemas.

I have been one of the most obnoxious tell-it-like-I-see-it mofos on these boards since I got here, frequently admonished for my blunt tactics.

hmph.

I have learned that "calling it as you see it" is much more effective when done with tact.

Saved the marriage.

Hahahaha, you're funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Yeah, you can be like that....prolly why I like you so much. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

So, what did you say that got you accused of blowing sunshine enemas?!?!?! I GOTTA see this. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

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D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006
D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR)
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Re: "Sunshine enemas" vs behaving in a civilized manner.
MarriedForever #1827790 02/20/07 06:20 PM
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Maybe someone mixed up sunshine enema with how they feel when they read your raw and true words?

Like sunshine? Or purged of it?

Heehee.

Here's to the woman who is high on life from living directly from truth...and reaping those endless rewards from her choices.

LA
Re: "Sunshine enemas" vs behaving in a civilized manner.
LovingAnyway #1827791 02/20/07 06:37 PM
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M4L - whoever accused you of that? It sure wasn't me!

Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Re: "Sunshine enemas" vs behaving in a civilized manner.
bigkahuna #1827792 02/20/07 06:45 PM
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Hey, I need a link to that thread, because I enjoy a good laugh.

I always seem to miss the good stuff around here.

SB

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