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Well I`m ending this marriage. Tried everything I possibly could.FWH last ditch effort to cover up YET again his evil doings I just could no longer take. His trying to work on our marriage was all one sided(MINE). He just could`nt get the concept of how important coming clean and staying clean in our marriage is/was. He will always live in the state of denial.
I`m looking forward to getting a job and my daughter is helping me find somewhere to live. Its had been hard these few days being in this house knowing what went on in the dark.He still is acting like he is innocent. I can`t live like this no more. I feel better knowing I`m taking my 2 kids and starting a new life. I`m fine with it. It will be hard on a woman my age but that is fine, what I have been living is much harder I`m sure. Take care ppl.
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Hi Aptiva,
I'm sorry you are going through all this.I was also the one basically doing all the work trying to keep my marriage alive while my ex was out in his A.It went on for a long time,thru plan A/B etc then D.It was the right decision for me too based on the reality,not what if's.
Divorce is hard on everyone but you can survive.I have and I am enjoying my newfound life as it is.Like you suggested,I am so much happier now then I was living with my ex as he was then.And my kids appear to be happy too.We have managed well I think,given what we were put through.
Good luck!
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aptiva
I will say a prayer for you and your children NOW! God Bless your life.
BS-me-43, FWH 43 Married 23 yrs. before A
DDay 1-Jan.7th,2006 Kids ages then-21,19,16,14
DDay 2-Feb.1st,2006 Kids ages now-23,21,18,17
H left us for 2 months to live with ow. 5 yrs later still here. One child still at home(19), 2 grandbabies!
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I am sorry everything is over, but things happened for a reason.
good luck
C
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