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#1828934 02/22/07 03:45 PM
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After I expressed my distress to DH about him calling OW (if she was preg and did abort it... he wanted to make sure she wasn't too depressed)... anyway, I was under the impression that he was going to stop.

I find out that in fact that was not the case and she is still calling him.... he says he can't control what she does. I say he CAN control answering the phone.

Do I have the right to have him call her in front of me and tell her that it has to stop???

I'm so confused. He leaves in 3 weeks to go to Korea for a year.... (go army.. perfect timing once again).


BS: 27
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D-Day: 1-08-07

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Please read the section on this site about how affairs should end. Harley advises a no-contact letter and yes, you do have the right to insist that he tells her in writing No Contact.
Are you going with your H to Korea? If there is any way to do it, at least you can be together.

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We're working me going to Korea with him... I want to go no matter what but he's asking me to wait a few weeks once he goes there so he can reapply for sponsorship


BS: 27
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Married: 6-28-03
D-Day: 1-08-07

DS born 11-15-08

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