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Don't let the WS bully you
#1829616 02/24/07 01:57 PM
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My thought for the day: Don't let the WS bully you

Know how to prevent this? Live well. Know your personal and M boundaries. Do NOT be afraid to move forward. WS' and OPs want the BS to stay in the dark. Get lighted!!! Stay in the light (exposure, focus, with a plan, etc.). Be secure yourself. Don't be afraid to admit to your mistakes but don't whine about them to the WS. Just admit and move forward.

You'd be surprised what those few steps I outlined above can do for your personal self-esteem and to the A.

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JMHO.....others welcome..... of course. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

take care,
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Exactly!!!!

WW tells our daughters (6 9 11) that I am buying WW friends, that I am stealing her friends away. By exposing to them and they continue to have a relationship with me.

I have stepped up to the needs of my daughters, for instance I have become a 4H volunteer, which requires a class and training.... well WW is telling the D's that i am doing it to hurt her??? Sorry she needs to get over it.
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Exactly!!!!

WW tells our daughters (6 9 11) that I am buying WW friends, that I am stealing her friends away. By exposing to them and they continue to have a relationship with me.

I have stepped up to the needs of my daughters, for instance I have become a 4H volunteer, which requires a class and training.... well WW is telling the D's that i am doing it to hurt her??? Sorry she needs to get over it.

Good job VKR. Very proud of you. Notice who you can tell they are still a WS since it is still all about them?

Keep up the good work. Betcha make a cute 4H volunteer. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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Orchid #1829619 02/25/07 02:34 PM
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I think this is subject worth reading or commenting on so while it is my thread..... I'd thought I'd give it a bump. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Orchid #1829620 02/25/07 08:42 PM
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Orchid,


I love you brought up this tremendous reminder and well stated!


I second the motion!


Living well!! Reclaiming one's self respect/dignity!!!


Many affairs are not all are based in exerting power/abuse of power, lots of bullying cruel sadistic behavior. No excuses. People can BEHAVE!


It's inhumane for both parties, as well for the perpertator when better alternatives are available.


I think it's a healthy idea to read one's constitional HUMAN RIGHTS now and again...


Life is so precious!


This thread needs to continue!!! Comes a time when a "Nuff" is E-Nuff!!!


Your such a babe!!! You already know this hon!!!

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