My exh spent our children's college funds on his live in gf implants. Saving for her face lift due to her yrs of hard wrinkled living.


No kidding. Yep, I warned him about venus pie traps.



I laugh. I pity no brainers. Some people's kids. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Me too! Me too!
X called yesterday asking if he could pick up the living room furniture and bring me the china today per our divorce settlement finalized this last week.

As expected, XSIL and OW pull up in car directly across from my front door so that they can supervise and see into my house. X had to run to the car and get instructions every few minutes. X and two other guys took the furniture and then refused to give me the china unless I sign and give him the title to stepson's car. Both our names are on the title and I know X wants to sell it. The car is rightfully stepson's and I worded our divorce decree so that the title is to be signed over to stepson since he is now over 18. XSIL & OW were laughing and spewing insults as they drove away (with china, not title).

What's funny is that I'm not mad. My roommate was mad. She got to see their ugly behavior. It's comforting for someone else to think they are nuts and know that it's not just me. I'm a little irritated with myself for not asking him to bring in the china first (I'm too nice.), but I'm so glad to be free of that family.

"and she is a poor school teacher, all school teachers are poor, no matter how much they make and how much the leech off of others. . ."

We school teachers aren't all dirt poor (although we are underpaid compared to most professionals with similar university training and years of experience in their respective fields), and we're certainly not all leeches (although your ex sure does seem to be). I just wanted to point out the unfair overgeneralization!

here's another generalization on school teachers - the job's so stressful that they are freaks behind closed doors. true?

on ex's - left and filed in Jan 06 and it went final Sept 06. She is still ranting/raving/being a crazy person. she manipulates and calculates and waits for me to screw up so she can pounce. some people need a villain. some people need to blame everything if life on someone else. all you can do is be the best person you can be and move on.

freaks behind closed doors? LOL what is that supposed to mean? am I a "freak" behind closed doors gekko? you know us teachers....

mlhb

That is quite appalling.Sometimes I think I hear it all but I just wait and invariably there's another story that just defies decency.

I'm sorry for your children.It wouldn't be such a bad thing for the implants to rupture either.I wonder if the GF knows where the money came from <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />

FYI--Not that sWIFTTy needs defending but I need to point out that there has been an error. HE does not think all school teachers are poor or that you'all are freaks behind closed doors (although we all know that mlhb is <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />). Is is his ExW that plays that game.

Let's just say this. sWIFTTy's job involves finances and so his exW used to think of him as "greedy capitalist scum" or a "selfish corporate type" because he made money. By contrast, she viewed herself as the "poor starving bohemian teacher" who was sacrificing for her art. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> In real life, he worked for his money and earned his salary, same as any husband, and wanted to enjoy the benefits of his money. She liked the victim/pity party position of having a "free" house (she's a teacher at a fairly exclusive private school) and a "borrowed" mini-van...because then her salary was low and she could claim "See? My salary is SO MUCH LOWER than yours!" Then when he'd try to say, "But honey, if you include the benefits, they're actually pretty close" (you know...being an INTP and showing her the facts) she would pull out the "democratic" card and claim that he's greedy and blah-blah-blah.

Soooo...this is not a thread about the poverty of teachers. This is all about how entitled Ex-spouses can be sometimes...and trust me...his is right up there with the best of them. She's at an exclusive school, "company" home and car, very good salary, and they pay utilities...but she's a "poor starving artist" and he's a greedy corporate monster. PUHLEEZE! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

CJ,


Your very strong and courageous to endure all this.


Too, bad you just couldn't move far away and be done with all of this.


You don't need this.


Any of this.



AB,


Thankyou for your kind support. The plunder list is longer than the implants. Gf is totally aware.

My exh is very sick, vindictive, arrogant man and wants to see his kids destroyed and strung out like himself.

faithfulwifecj...

i resemble that remark! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

mlhb

Don't worry, mlbh, even the most angelic and conservative Republican 'mommy' types (ahem ahem) are freaks behind closed doors. But SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Ya didn't hear it from me! It's an ancient MB secret!



<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

I have often said, "Why be normal when you can be yourself?"

Some people are just more themselves than others.

Thanks for posting this. I was beginning to think we were the only one who had to deal with this woman - nobody believes me when I tell them. Thank you so much for the laughs! I feel better.

Lori