At some point, when all the questions have been answered then Dr. Harley says the BS should not bring the A up ever again. I heard Willard Harley say that on our MB weekend.

I think he says the same thing in SAA. The A isn't something that is forever brought up to beat our FWS's up with. We need to forgive and let it go, not that we can ever forget. We need to continue to do the work of meeting each other's EN's and stop love busters. BS's have our part to do to. Harley says that everyone is susceptible to an A. Many of us want to believe that we are above that and it can be humbling to accept that we are.

Harley also has said that we should never trust each other's 100%. we need to keep actively loving and not get complacent. The rewards are worth it.

Last edited by Trix; 03/05/07 09:11 AM.
Married 1976
Me:BS
Him:FWS
MB Weekend March 2003
2 S's: '77 & '80, 1 D: '82