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Separated and Confused
#1839516 03/08/07 09:05 AM
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Well, my WH moved out at the beginning of this week. He says that he just does not love me the way he used to and that he wants to just focus on the kids and himself. So, where does that leave me, well I know I need to work on myself and take care of my kids, but should I just get a D or just wait it out a bit and see what happens. He says that he needs me to help him with the business that we started together and that he can not do it without me, but this makes me feel awkward. If he needs me so bad, then why not work it out with me and try to get back what we once had together. I don't feel the same love for him that I used to either, so I don't know what is the best thing for both of us right now.

Does anyone have any advice on this that would help me?

BS - me - 30 WH - 31 Married - 8 yrs Together - 14 yrs D-Day - 10-02-06 WH is still in contact with OW!!!!! [url=link]My Story ]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...HPSESSID=[/url] Finally told me the truth of his feeling about OW - 1-03-07 DD - 5 mths DS - 2yrs
Re: Separated and Confused
jambearT #1839517 03/08/07 09:27 AM
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Wow Jambear, I would tell you to do Plan A but since you have a biz together. if I were you, I think I would contact an attorney and see what my options were. Also get into IC. He/She may have some answers for you. I would tell you H that you need some time to think about what you are going to do as far as the biz and start your Plan A.
I am sorry you are going thru this. It really sucks.

"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07

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