tj3 - if you really want some help, I am going to start a thread just for you on the Recovery Forum. That is where you need to be anyway, imho, not on the Divorcing/Divorced forum, the Plan A/Plan B, forum, etc..


I also don't want to threadjack rdog's thread to turn it into your thread. That is also why I decided to copy my post from that thread and put it here where you might be more likely to see it.

Anyway, if you truly want some help, see me on the Recovery Forum. The "ball" is in your court.

God bless.

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In Christlike love at all times.