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sorry if this is answered in another thread, I am new, although not new to betrayal
1. when a spouse is in a affair, why do they tell you that they never loved you?
2. When they are "kicked out" why do they want to come back before the affair is really over?
3. And why do they keep denying it when you have all the proof?
and for me personally, 20 yrs later I am still not over it.
It dosen't wreck my joy or my life entirely, but when it hits me it still hurts horribly
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Purchase and read "Surviving an Affair" by Dr. Willard Harley, founder of this site, for answers to all those questions, and a guideline on how not to spend the rest of your married life longing for a better marriage.
BH - me 53, ONS 1979
FWW - 51, 2 EA's, 1 PA
Last D-Day, Sep. 30, 2003
Last Contact/recovery began 2-26-04
***You can do anything with time and money...but remember...money won't buy you time!***
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If you keep reading and posting here, you will see that cheaters all say and do the same thing. It is just part of the disease.
Are you still with this person?
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I am. I posted my basic story in Recovery, I am having a really tough time
Me-49 and staying there, course AARP sent me my card ugh
H-49
DD and SIL
GS the light of my life! 1 and a half, full of you know what
DS med school
always working on me
•The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. Ghandi
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