Despite being told that my Ex's affair would end, it still continues, after more than 2 years.
He lives with the OW - and yes, I am still jealous of that.
I am jealous of the time that the OW spends with my kids. I am jealous that my kids are coming to like her, after she and my ex were the ones who damaged their lives.
If people have no sense that they have done anything wrong, they won't feel afraid that their affair partner will cheat on them. Why should they?
After two years, they are still together. Reality has well set in by now, and still the affair continues. They have everything! The love of my kids, a sound financial future, their health and love for each other.
I am the one with nothing. Yes, I am jealous!
Olanya:
Your reality is my nightmare; to be reminded that there are people out there living it is so discourging. I can understand how you would be jealous...I would be, too.
However, I don't believe that you have nothing. You have your dignity and self-respect. And you have the support of everyone here.
I know, small consolation.
I also was a firm believer in "what comes around goes around," but I don't know anymore. Maybe it just takes a lot longer than we'd like!
My best friend (when she was going through this) used to say that she knew they'd get theirs in the end (burning in he11), but that wasn't quite good enough..she wanted to SEE them get theirs!
Olanya, keep your head high. Everyone here hears your shouts of unfairness, and we are shouting with you.
