I don't mean to have such an awful subject title, but I've tried everything and I need help from anyone, please. I have been married for about 1 year.
Every few months or so my wife will get mad at me for around 3 or 4 days. During this time it doesent matter what I say or do, she reacts only negatively and just says im the most awful person and a jerk etc. After ahile I just cant do or say anything, because I know shell just get more upset, but when I dont do these things, then she gets upset because Im not trying to talk to her, you see? how these things start, it doesent really matter, they are all little things, like if she thinks im acting wierd when im really not, or so on. Right now, this girl I knew form years ago imed me for the first time in months and months, and when my wife asked if i had been talkign to any girls online, I hesitated at first and then said yes, now shes been mad at me constantly for 5 days because I hesitated. It seems like I cant do a thing, im damned if i try to talk and damned if i dont. Someone, please tell me what to do!!!

It sounds like she has trust issues. Did you ever give her any reason to not trust you? If she does has a reason to not fully trust you I would just be open and honest with her give her access to your computer or anything else that will reassure her that you love her and are being honest with her. I would just try to make her feel loved and appreciated because she must feel like something is missing. But after all what do I know I can't even get my husband to talk to me! Good Luck!!