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WOW from yesterday:
"Yes according to both of them it ended a year ago. He claims he was texting her to keep her quiet. "To appease her so she didn't tell me." They had been texting for quite a while before I found the messages. (I actually don't know if the texting stopped after the Affair) I didn't and don't buy it either, but I have to move forward past that. And to further complicate she claims he was trying to start it up again, he claims she was trying to start it up again. Who knows?!?! "
M2L
ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
DDAY May 06
Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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Yep.
I think she is afraid to face it head on. Kind of like a defense mechanism that kicks in when you can't emotionally handle something.
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Hello everyone. I'm still here. I know you all know I don't like to hear it, but I'm a big girl. I can take it. I have been seriously contemplating about telling him. It's just something I don't want to rush into. It's true that I'm very afraid to handle it head on. The emotions that this whole thing has put into me just sucks! To me it's a very complex issue and I think I'll start a new thread about exposure. But just wanted to let you all know that I am still here and I'm reading what you're saying, and I'd probably say the same thing that you guys are saying, I'm just scared.
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Yes WOW,
I was leery of exposure too, but you did nothing wrong - they did.
Do you see that this whack job OW wants your life? Wants to be you?
You need to put as much distance between you/your H and her as you can.
Take a look at how long some of these people have been here. They have seen this crap many many times. They also know the best path out of this crap.
What do you say???
M2L
ME BH 36 - FWW 33
2 kids
DDAY May 06
Sometimes waywards can be like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
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