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''This is just a message to any BS of what can happen and what they should look for so they don't fall into the same situation. It happens and you've seen it.''

So..are you braggin' or complainin'??


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I don't trust someone who refuses to say what their former MB identity was ....

I just don't

This shadow of dishonesty makes me leery of the entire thing

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I’m using a different screen name for this letter and I have been here for about 1.5 years under a different name. And no…I’m not telling you who I am.


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I've always liked Pep's responses. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I smell something living under the bridge, actually.


"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan

"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky

WS: They are who they are.

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I've always liked Pep's responses. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

now I know you're fake

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I've always liked Pep's responses. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

now I know you're fake

Lol! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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Gotta go with you, Aphelion.

If you've been here for that long...why NOT admit 'who' you are? You aren't going to be coming here for marriage building anymore...so you may as well admit WHO you are and give yourself some semblance of credibility that you're not a troll.

Posting under another name means that you're either a) lying, or b) planning on continuing to post on that other name. To what point? Obviously, if you're engaged in an affair, you darn sure shouldn't be trying to give anyone else advice here!

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Well Pep, I may not have 18,000+ posts like yourself, but my 900+ posts are not fake.

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Well Pep, I may not have 18,000+ posts like yourself, but my 900+ posts are not fake.

just your fake identity is fake

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I reiterate:

If you've been here for that long...why NOT admit 'who' you are? You aren't going to be coming here for marriage building anymore...so you may as well admit WHO you are and give yourself some semblance of credibility that you're not a troll.

Posting under another name means that you're either a) lying, or b) planning on continuing to post on that other name. To what point? Obviously, if you're engaged in an affair, you darn sure shouldn't be trying to give anyone else advice here!

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I have to say if you need something to drive the point home for you since your W's A didn't seem to do the trick then I suggest you watch Jungel Fever or Fatal Attraction. If you remove all of the racial tension from the former then you can see how bad these things can and do end. If you said your W did start trying to meet your EN's then you know she had recommited to you. Why not build on that instead of turning to someone else. What were your faults in your M? Have you fixed those? If not you will keep finding yourself right back in square one. You are the only constant in all of your relationships. I wish you luck. You will need it.


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...so you may as well admit WHO you are and give yourself some semblance of credibility that you're not a troll.


Ah, I always did like shaking up the hornet's nest just to see how people will respond. Some are predictable, but every now-n-then I see some that surprise me.

You haven't surprised me and I like that.

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This is a pretty disgusting thread. I wish I hadn't read it. Now that I have, I also want to know who you are so that I can, um, filter your previous posts appropriately.

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So 123herewego

How does it feel to go out with a woman who dates a married man? Not being snarky, but what was your opinion of the other man, and how can you see it differently with this woman who emotes all these feeling in you?

Isn't she the same as your wife's other man?

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Ah, I always did like shaking up the hornet's nest just to see how people will respond.


Exactly what "hornet's nest" are you trying to shake up? And why?

Clearly, it is NOT advice you seek. I can't imagine anyone here taking your post as a warning. So, what are you trying to do?

Did you just post this for fun? Some sick, twisted form of entertainment for you?

I'm just not getting it.

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Swan's song not just that now he should be able to see how she was pulled into her A and end his and tell her and work through this and walk away with some intergrity.


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[i]Do not ask for whom the bell trolls, it trolls for thee[i]

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The only person that has been here between 1-2 years, has between 800-1100 posts, and I wasn't able to confirm had children is hopeandpray, and I doubt it is him. Does anyone know his story?


Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
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123, you've just described the nightmares of every truly FWS around here-we honestly didn't need you to paint a picture for us, what runs through our own minds is torture enough thanks...Why on earth would you wish to come here anonymously and try to wreak havoc on a community that has supported you for the last year and a half? This is sicker than sick...

Do you not realize how very cruel this is? You aren't coming here for help or to help now...You are here all drunk on fog and gloating about your affair...That is PAINFUL for both the BS' and the FWS' here...It just sucks and you are a HUGE COWARD and more than likely a BIG OLD TROLL!!!

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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