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A few days ago I found out for certain that my ex and probably the OW too are reading here. I haven’t posted here much in the past few months anyway, but MB had remained a haven for me, and the only place I could come to vent and talk about my pain. Now this is no longer a safe place for me, and so I can't continue to post here, not even occasionally. It has, literally, been invaded by the infidels! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> I just wanted to thank everyone for the help and support you have given me over the past two years. Pepperband, MelodyLane, Bob Pure, StrongFoundation, WAT, Brownhair, Pebbles, Aphelion and many more – some of you have left too, and some remain to help those caught in the horrible pain of betrayal – but thank you all, from the bottom of my heart. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Oh Alph....I'm so farging sorry....
I could just cry.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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Me too. I will miss you.
There are a couple other places you could hang, you know.
One I know you know about already. Also, some of us could meet you on your own private threads on ILUL.com (it controls access) if you want to later.
I will continue to pray for you and your girls.
Oh, may I still use your quote for a while?
With Prayers,
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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And to noddy and omelette:
Get a Real Life! Stop stealing life from others.
You are two of the most egregious adulterers I have come across.
Too bad you still have a ways to fall.
Looking forward to hearing about it, actually.
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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Alphin - yuck, yuck, yuck.
I am sorry you have lost your safe haven here but I KNOW you will go on to have a much more fulfilling life because of who you are and who you've become.
Your girls have a great role model in you and I hope you find that special someone (oneday) who is worthy of you and your girls.
By the way, I would like to read your book one day so I hope you stay true to that dream.
(((((Alphin))))) - you are in my thoughts and I will miss you. Even though I no longer post (due to similar worries that have forced you out) I do think of you and pray (in my own way) for your happiness.
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Sorry to hear that, Alphin! Would you mind emailing me so I get your email address so we can stay in touch? ohmelodylane@aol.com Thanks!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm very sorry you are leaving but I can understand. I will still look out for news from you... someday I'm sure you'll be kind enough to let us know how you are doing.
All the best. You deserve it, you're a great person.
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And to noddy and omelette:
Get a Real Life! Stop stealing life from others.
You are two of the most egregious adulterers I have come across.
Too bad you still have a ways to fall.
Looking forward to hearing about it, actually. You cleaned it up Appy. I came back to tell them to kiss our collective boohoobas.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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May you be swallowed by a whale with excessively bad breath, O thou offspring of a squashed cockroach
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Take heed, thou sad Pharisee, for you will be kicked by an incontinent camel
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Thou shalt be smitten with all-over boils, O ye son of a Philistine!
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May I just point out you, and also to La Omelette.....if Noddy DIDN'T CARE, wanted his XW out of the picture FOREVER, was TOTALLY COMMITTED to his scrambled eggs, had NO FEELINGS left for the mother of his children, wanted only to MOVE ON with his life, did not have any remaining WISTFUL YEARNINGS for the life he gave up, was COMPLETELY CONTENTED with his oval-shaped chicken dropping
HE WOULD NOT BE HERE!!!!!!!!!!
Omelette, you're already on your way out.
Nope, doesn't mean Alphin would want her WH back, even if he only wanted her. But he doesn't want you 100%, and you can take that to the frying pan.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Alphin, big big hugs for you and the kids and a big muddy kick in the pants to the two adulterers.
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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Alfin,
So sorry to see you go and best wishes in your new life.
But if I may comment about the title of your thread.....I think it sends a very wrong message to the vets and especially to the newbies here at MB. "Busted" gives the impression that what we do here, say here and pray for here is secretive, deceitful and wrong. As far as I am concerned there is almost nothing here that could be characterized as such.
So best of luck......but I would welcome a change on your post's title
Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle
You believe easily what you hope for ernestly
Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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Pep's insults reminded me of the story in the Old Testament.
Yup, some translations call them tumors or emerods:
1 Samuel 5
1And the Philistines took the ark of God, and brought it from Eben-ezer to Ashdod.
2And the Philistines took the ark of God and brought it into the house of Dagon, and set it by Dagon.
3And when they of Ashdod arose early the next day, behold, Dagon had fallen on his face to the ground before the ark of Jehovah. And they took Dagon, and set him in his place again.
4And when they arose early the next morning, behold, Dagon had fallen on his face to the ground before the ark of Jehovah; and the head of Dagon and both the palms of his hands were cut off upon the threshold; only the fish-stump was left to him.
5Therefore neither the priests of Dagon nor any that come into Dagon's house tread on the threshold of Dagon in Ashdod to this day.
6And the hand of Jehovah was heavy upon them of Ashdod, and he laid them waste, and smote them with hemorrhoids, -- Ashdod and its borders.
7And when the men of Ashdod saw that it was so, they said, The ark of the God of Israel shall not abide with us; for his hand is severe upon us, and upon Dagon our god.
8And they sent and gathered all the lords of the Philistines unto them, and said, What shall we do with the ark of the God of Israel? And they said, Let the ark of the God of Israel be carried about to Gath. And they carried the ark of the God of Israel about [thither].
9And it came to pass that, after they had carried it about, the hand of Jehovah was against the city with very great panic; and he smote the men of the city, both small and great, and hemorrhoids broke out upon them.
10And they sent the ark of God to Ekron. And it came to pass, when the ark of God came to Ekron, that the Ekronites cried out, saying, They have brought about the ark of the God of Israel to us, to kill us and our people.
11And they sent and gathered all the lords of the Philistines, and said, Send away the ark of the God of Israel, and let it go again to its own place, that it kill us not, and our people. For there was deadly alarm throughout the city: the hand of God was very heavy there;
12and the men that died not were smitten with the hemorrhoids; and the cry of the city went up to heaven.
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Alphin, I find that weird. If they were so incredibly happy together, why would they be concerned about what you are up to? Perhaps they are following Harley's principals and trying to beat all the odds that are stacked up against them! WHATEVER!
Take care Alphin. Hope your health problems don't trouble you too much and that your daughters continue to light up your life.
Big middle finger to Noddy and Omelette. TT
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Alph,
Check back sometime and let us know how you're doing.
Best of luck to you and the kids.
Mark
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I'm sorry to see you leave Alph. We'll miss you so much!
Noddy and Omlette, what goes around comes around, just remember - what you two have done is very wrong, and you WILL pay for it later.
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