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#1849503 03/24/07 11:38 AM
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I dunno if this violates Harley's site rules or not. I am curious if anyone has an opinion, good or bad, on Schnarch's methodology and basic principals. He does not address infidelity, he seems to concentrate on building an effective relationship through various means that do not seem to conflict with Harley; more like supplementing them.

Just curious.

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[color:"red"] This ~~~> [/color] HERE

[color:"blue"] is how I put Schnarch's ideas into play ~~~> regarding Plan A

It works for me

maybe not all

I learned MORE from Schnarch than any other book about the dynamics of marriage and ~~~> the divine PURPOSE of marriage ~~~> that MARRIAGE is a "people growing" system !!!!

HOW COOL IS THAT?

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Heartfelt thanks Pepperband.

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I think Schnarch's work is a very difficult field to plow, and that many who try cannot make heads or tails out of his stuff.

Whereas Harley, is a readily accessible author, understandable to nearly everyone who makes the effort.

Yanno?

Pep

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Got it. He has two levels, one for the professionals, which is probably the one you read, and one he published later on for those who needed lay language. I am trying to plow the first field and the rocks are making it hard to do.

Larry


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