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My husband and I are both Capricorns, and have both been wayward.

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My fw husband is a Sagittarius, and so was the MOW.


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The poster to this thread just goes to show how different men (Medec Big K) are than women. Why they need us to complete them. They think logically about everything and they need us to help them see the whole picture and vice versa.


Insulting and absolutely moronic. Yes, we need to be completed by others and your birthday plays a big role in your fidelity. Absolutely ridiculous.

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OK DIG, what am I?


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Well, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius are all supposed to be good matches for one another.

I wouldn't think that all these signs with propensities toward infidelity would get along so well.

My grandmother is very into astrology. She is 95. I have a theory...if you're into astrology, you live a long time!

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I don't know what but if you Alph were to tell me a little about yourself I can get a better idea. How would someone else describe you.

Med. What did I say that was insulting. I said I can see why men and women need to complete one another what was insulting about that?


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Well, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius are all supposed to be good matches for one another.

So true I am a gemini and most of my friends are air signs.

Well from what I read they get along so well because the air signs are the only ones that really understand each other.

My grandmother is very into astrology. She is 95. I have a theory...if you're into astrology, you live a long time!

I hope you are right about this one I would love to live as long as your sweet smart grammy.

What sign is she by the way and you for that matter PK


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XWH and current WH or FWH - not sure which

both are Aries... first of April and end of April. My X would blantantly cheat or tell me so as not to have to deal with quilt. current H is as sneaky as they come... top of the line, put scotch tape on the top of doors sneaky....

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oh -- and... no offense DIG

but I am with MEDC on this stuff .... do not take any of it serious at all


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Not at all Carn. everyone is allowed to have their own opinion. I wasn't offened by what Medec said I just said that just goes to show how differrent we see things.

BTW Does anyone else see my statment Medec refered to as insulting it was not meant to be. I was only trying to make a point.


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I think MEDC took offense to what you wrote in a word-for-word format. I didn't see it as you saying anything negative. What I got from your post is that men and women see things from two different angles, and we triangulate eachother, we complete eachother in this way.

It's not offensive. I think it's just in the way you strung the words together. Maybe you meant to say that we COMPLIMENT eachother.

Oh, and I'm an Aquarius, WH is a Capricorn.

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I am wondering if you can divine it from my posts on MB, actually.

Hint: I am a skeptic.


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To assume that all men think with only their logic is insulting. To say that we "need" women to complete us is insulting. I would like a woman to compliment me... but I do not need one to complete me.
Speaking from feelings and logic... your thread is insulting to me as a BS. The logic behind it assumes that even though you are taking into account their environment, that WS are indeed inclined to cheat based on their birthday. WOW!!!! Shocking news... perhaps we should limit our dating pool to a those born in certain months of the year!!!! YOU could effectively solve the majority of the infidelity crisis afflicting this country. Hey... while you are at it... what sign is more likely to be a child abuser, spouse abuser, animal abuser, porn addict, junkie, hooker....etc??? Oops, I have to go now... I need to call the psychic hotline for my daily reading!

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I, personally, enjoy reading about astrology. I've never used it as a way to dictate my life or how I go about it.

In my experience, many of the characteristics used to describe or delineate one sign from another is interesting, and can hold some merit.

I don't take offense to what you wrote, but I'm not taking anything in this thread personally. I see your curiosity as just that. Maybe you could have picked better phrasing for your statment about how women and men compliment eachother. Even if you believe that women and men COMPLETE eachother, to each his/her own...


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Looking for your annswers in an astrology chart is about as reliable as reading a bowl of coco puffs.

Now I see that I may have worded my statement wrong,SE said it the way I meant it to come out.

The above I quoted from you however my dear Medec could be seen as a DJ. Just because you don't agree with what I said doesn't make it wrong. I remember at one point people thought that it was rubbish to believe the world was anything other than flat and that the Wright brothers could never get a machine as heavy as a plane to fly.


I didn't see it as you saying anything negative. What I got from your post is that men and women see things from two different angles, and we triangulate eachother, we complete eachother in this way.

It's not offensive. I think it's just in the way you strung the words together. Maybe you meant to say that we COMPLIMENT each other.

From the way I have seen you post to people I can tell you are hurting and I know that hurt people hurt people. I can tell you that no matter what you think or how you feel it is never ok to say mean or hurtful things to people. You never know how much you say could mean to someone. It could mean life or death for someone. Suppose you were rushing to an appointment you were going to be late for and someone step out in the front of your car while you were sitting at the red light right when it was getting ready to turn green and you had one of two ways you could handle it, you could either berate the person and say hey what the ****** is wrong with you stepping out in the front of my car like that. Or you could notice that besides you someone else has problems too and that everything is not all about and ask are you ok you look a little upset can I help you with something. The person then replies thank you so much for asking I was actully about go and kill myself because all my life no one made me feel like I was worth much but because you a stranger cared enough to notice that I could use a kind word I now realize that not everyone is the same. You are the first person that has ever really show me any compassion and I want to thank you. Or you could have done the former and then just confirm that they were worthless and that life is not worth living.

If my thread to you is insulting to you as a BS then it is because you let it be insulting. I am sure they have many BS's on this board that would not find what I wrote to be insulting to them. It is not about you and your feelings it is about my curiosity. I like learning new things. That's what this is about not you or any BS. You seriously need to chill out dude. I don't know your story and I am sorry for you pain but that is no reason to make everyone else suffer. I think this sense of entitlement not only goes to WS but I think you feel entitled to make other feel the hurt you feel due to your betrayal is that fair? I think not.


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Thank you SE. I really appreicate your validation of my feelings. I don't let it dictate my life either but I to do find it interesting. Thank you also for taking my curiosty for just what it is. I will work on my wording.


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Hey Alph I said I was into astrology not that I was madam Cleo. If you give me at least two more hints to your personality then I would have a better chance at guessing your sign. The only thing I can be certain of beside you being a skeptic is that you are a man.


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DIG:

Don't argue with MEDC. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Especially on this thread about this subject.

MEDC: Chill out. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

This one is for fun. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

You are probably a Virgo anyway. Just like me.

So much for these signs meaning anything.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

But that is why this is for fun....

And leave it at that.

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LG... when I need you to tell me what to do, I will make a point to ask for your input and direction. If this was worded as just for fun, I wouldn't be wasting my time on this topic. It was worded as an attempt to show that when a person is born influences (along with other factors) their predisposition to have an affair.


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I am into Astrology and I want to know how much someone birthday effects their personality ie; How faithful they are.


I read that Aries The Ram March 21 - April 19 are the mostunfaithful


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Medec in a way I agree with you and a way I don't you could very be influenced by your sign. However your upbringing also plays a factor in the puzzle.

I believe your sign play a bigger role than most people would like to think.

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