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now what?
#1849915 03/25/07 01:33 PM
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my husband has cheated on me multiple times before we got married what should i think?

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Re: now what?
kade #1849916 03/25/07 05:13 PM
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Welcome. It sounds like your husband is a sex addict. If he doesn't get treatment, he will probably continue going down the same path.

If I were you, I would insist that he get counseling and prove that he has changed. Giving you an STD while you were pregnant is completely unacceptable.
Re: now what?
kade #1849917 03/25/07 05:16 PM
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kade,

one thing is for sure. you are not alone and neither is your H. I am a BS and my W is a FWS. I know you may be saying "yeah, thats fine and dandy but what about my situation". well, you are in the right place and you are here with people who know EXACTLY what you are going through. Please stick around, try to get your H to come here, I am relatively newto all this and I am so totally messsed up in the head from it too, but there are many here who have come out on the other side, they lived it and can help you/us.

Is your H showing any remorse?
Is he still living with you?
When did D-day take place? (in other words, when did the sh** hit the fan)?

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BS(me)-41
FWS(wife)-39
D-11
D-13
S-15
Dday-1 10/05/05
Dday-2 06/02/06
Dday-3 07/14/06
Married - 17 years, together 23
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