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#1850338 03/26/07 08:16 AM
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Wife has asked for divorce because she says she does not love me and want to see other people that like her and says she wont do anything like that without a divorce so that she wont feel guilty about it. I have suggested separation but she does not agree. My questions is should I keep trying to win her over and see if I can stop her from going out with the guy or just keep trying and let her be and see if can win her back..I have posted more detailed story in emotional help thread. Please help.

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bump for trying65.

Trying has posted on Emotional Needs, but he really needs to do a full-blown Plan A, and he needs any advice anyone can give him. His wife wants a divorce so she can pursue a relationship with another man - she says she wants the divorce first so it "won't be an affair."


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