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A nice little story off the internet - author anonymous

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up. He then asked, "Who still wants it?"

Still the hands were up in the air. " Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air. "My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.

Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. We experience a great deal of shame and guilt about our past. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless. The worth of our lives come not in what we do or who we know but by who we are! You are special - Don't ever forget it! Count Your Blessings, not your problems!

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Thank you for sharing that NOW...I really needed it today...

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
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Me, too, Mrs. W....every day.

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That is so beautiful,...thank you for sharing! I often battle with myself in my worthiness and being "good enough" just as I am. I will remember this! TY TY TY!
Blessings!


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BS(H)-33
Together-18yrs
M-14yrs
D-13,D-11,D-8
PA lasted 8mon. started 8/05
moved out 2/06
Bomb dropped 5/06.
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I found that on this website : coping.org
after googling "guilt and shame".

It's awesome!

{{{hugs}}}


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