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Marriage Builders Forums General Discussion Other Topics PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS!

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Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Rock__ #1851013 03/29/07 09:47 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA S Strivn4Better Member
Strivn4Better Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA	I like them too...that why when I saw it I looked up the link...was interested in seeing the video! Good music helps overcome the day! I'm in a better mood b/c of this thread today! I love Shake it Off! I downloaded it as am ringtone the other night! A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. Thomas Carlyle

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Rock__ #1851014 03/29/07 09:54 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871 S silentlucidity Member
silentlucidity Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,871	Home Again - Carole King (FOR THE WS WANTING HOME AGAIN) Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever gonna make it home again It's so far and out of sight I really need someone to talk to, and nobody else Knows how to comfort me tonight Snow is cold, rain is wet Chills my soul right to the marrow I won't be happy till I see you alone again Till I'm home again and feeling right Snow is cold, rain is wet Chills my soul right to the marrow I won't be happy till I see you alone again Till I'm home again and feeling right Till I'm home again and feeling right I wanna be home again and feeling right Me-BS-38 Married 1997; son, 8yo Divorced April 2009

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! carnation3 #1851015 03/29/07 09:54 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445 S skylites OP Member
OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Eph, Here ya go. Try it in eenie steps..... Journey I’ll Be Alright Without You Who’s Crying Now Send Her Love Separate Ways Be Good To Yourself

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851016 03/29/07 09:56 AM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Carn Awesome Pick! Collective Soul Better Now

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851017 03/29/07 10:17 AM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Strivn, Your in the groove! Awesome selections!

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851018 03/29/07 10:23 AM
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Rock__ Member R Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,530	Did I say That? by Meatloaf So this is what it feels like To be the one left behind To give it all you've got, then find You've already changed your mind And this is what it sounds like Crying on the bed that we both made Waiting for a sign that you just can't give me Any kind of sign I don't want to be here wide-awake Clinging to a love that can't be saved Hanging off the edge of every word that you say So I asked myself, "Do I love you so much That I'm willing to let you go?" At the tip of my tongue the anser was "yes" But, at the bottom of my heat I'm wondering... Did I say that? Did I say that? Sometimes you know I over react And what I say is not a matter of fact I wish that I could take it all back And you know I'd drag myself through fire at your side And you know the gates of Heaven are surely open wide And I need some sympathy here And I need someone to call my own I'm standing in the light of my mistakes And begging you, "come home." And I know you need some time to run and hide But the truth is hard to swallow when you're choking on your pride So I asked myself, "Do I love you so much That I'm willing to let you go?" At the tip of my tongue the answer was "yes" But, at the back of my mind I'm wondering... Did I say that? Did I say that? Sometimes you know I over react And what I say is not a matter of fact I wish that I could take it all back But I said that And I wish I could take it all back And I need some sympathy here And I want a love to call my own I want to take you in the back seat now And slowly drive you home And I know you need some time to run and hide But the truth is hard to swallow when you're choking on your pride I don't want to be this wide-awake Fighting for a love that I can't save And hanging off the edge of every word you say Knowing that it might make me cry I don't want to be this complicating You can drag it out but I'll be waiting I stumbled on "I love you" tonight But it sounded like goodbye Did I say that? Did I say that? Did I tell you that I loved you cause if Would have been a matter of fact Did I say that? This time I'm not letting go Did I say that? This time I'll have and I'll hold Did I tell you that I loved you cause it Would have been a matter of fact Did I say that? This time I'm walking through fire Did I say that? This time I'll feed your desire Did I say that? This time I'll stand by your side Did I say that? This time I will be your pride Did I say that? This time I'm not letting go Did I say that? This time I'll have and I'll hold Did I say that? This time I'm walking through fire Did I say that? And I wish that I could take it all back So this is what it feels like To be the one left behind To give it all you've got then find That you've already changed your mind Married 23 yrs WW-46 Me- 47 DD18 DD11 Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006 Too many other D-Days to remember

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Rock__ #1851019 03/29/07 10:36 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA S Strivn4Better Member
Strivn4Better Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA	Jewel - Who Will Save Your Soul here's one for greiving: Jewel - Foolish Games Hootie And The Blowfish - Let Her Cry For Plan Aers: Hootie and the Blowfish - Hold My Hand Thanks Sky! A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. Thomas Carlyle

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Strivn4Better #1851020 03/29/07 10:45 AM
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Strivn4Better Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA	ONE OF MY FAVORITES SINCE IT CAME OUT! beyonce - irreplaceable this is my thinking here! A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. Thomas Carlyle

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Strivn4Better #1851021 03/29/07 10:58 AM
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Strivn4Better Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA	Here's one dedicated to my Sistahs! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Mary J. Blige - No More Drama Another one of my Favorites: lol...FOR YEARS! Mary J. Blige - Not Gon' Cry A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. Thomas Carlyle

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! carnation3 #1851022 03/29/07 11:30 AM
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Dogfood Member D Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 541	I've looked for this one and can't find it online anywhere. When you are feeling angry over the whole thing, this is a fun song. An Alternative rock song. "Sinking" - Econoline Crush Slash and burn Insensitive It comes all the way around and back again Stunning move to make amends Could have been a little more than faking it You got what you want You got what you need You've got everything but me Here comes the pay-off What are you made of You're empty You're hollow You're sinking fast (2x) Cut and paste To move the men I don't know who you are now or where you've been Thought I knew everything Should have seen that guilty look Deception You got what you want You got what you need You've got everything but me Here comes the pay-off What are you made of You're empty You're hollow You're sinking fast (2x) Sinking fast... You're sinking fast You're sinking fast Sinking fast You're sinking fast You're sinking... (fast) Here comes the pay-off What are you made of You're empty You're hollow You're sinking fast (2x) (Here comes the pay-off) Here comes the pay-off (Here comes the pay-off) What are you made of You're empty You're hollow You're sinking fast (2x) BS - 36 (me) WS - 25 D-Day - 01/08/07(EA), 02/02/07 (PA) Divorce Final - 09/14/07 "It's only the fairy tale they believe"

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! DELETED Dogfood #1851023 03/29/07 12:50 PM
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Rock__ Member R Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,530	Post deleted by rockbottom06 Married 23 yrs WW-46 Me- 47 DD18 DD11 Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006 Too many other D-Days to remember

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Rock__ #1851024 03/29/07 01:05 PM
Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 245 C carnation3 Member
carnation3 Member C Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 245	thanks y'all !! Please tell me that I am not the only one who dances to the computer videos and any music that catches my ear on the tv... basically dance by myself here in Texas all the time..... why sit and fret... boogie !!!! thanks sky and s4better Actually registered ~ Jan 2005

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! carnation3 #1851025 03/29/07 01:15 PM
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TFCchanged4good Member T Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 681	Quote Better Now ~ by Collective Soul It's an upbeat, feel-good-about-yourself song Interestingly enough, the song has to do with getting over his XW's A.

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! TFCchanged4good #1851026 03/29/07 01:57 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA S Strivn4Better Member
Strivn4Better Member S Joined: May 2006 Posts: 5,463 Houma, LA	Carn- Im at work, so I sing my head off...if I was home, I'd be dancing! A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge. Thomas Carlyle

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Strivn4Better #1851027 03/29/07 02:17 PM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445 S skylites OP Member
OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	S4B & Carn, Love the Up beats!.... atta girls it's all for the team & gettin better. Going through life's up& downs in hip stylin Attitude. Can't change what's happened to us. We can choose, and change how we handle what's happened! Easy to become stuck!! Hey Carn, nooo your not alone I love to dance, always dance onto myself. Turned to dance as a kid and kept it up most of my life. Gave me positive building strength & joyous focus. Your in your own fine company & Alive. Nothing wrong dancin away stress, worries, pain, shame, blames, shakes loose those pent up frustrations. GIGO-- Garbage In & Garbage Out. Kick starts our own built in feel good hormones. Observe; Trees- dance, Flowers-dance, Wind- dances, Water- dances, Sun-light dances, Stars-dance, Clouds-dance, Moon beams-dance, Oceans-dance, Fish-dance, Birds-dance, Babies dance, So can we... We're designed to move, flow, go with the stream activity of life. As they say don't MESS with TEXAS for a reason! Crank er up! Get's the house work done quiker! One my fav's... feel goods Shakira- Hips Don't Lie

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851028 03/29/07 02:34 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,306 E Eph525 Member
Eph525 Member E Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,306	Ah, here are a few good ones from Toby Mac Made To Love You Get This Party Started Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B Thread Ephesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Eph525 #1851029 03/29/07 03:30 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Eph, Good ones! Toby Mac is awesome! See it's a comin... Gotta add my absolute Toby Mac fav of my mine. Hip/Hop, powerful compassionate msg! This is dedicated to all the young mom's/dad's out there struggling. Toby Mac Irene

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851030 03/29/07 03:37 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	SL, Nice Touch, lyrics are wonderful! Found the video's! Adding a few more of her classics. Carole King Home Again Re-adding the lyrics for you. Sometimes I wonder if I'm ever gonna make it home again It's so far and out of sight I really need someone to talk to, and nobody else Knows how to comfort me tonight Snow is cold, rain is wet Chills my soul right to the marrow I won't be happy till I see you alone again Till I'm home again and feeling right Snow is cold, rain is wet Chills my soul right to the marrow I won't be happy till I see you alone again Till I'm home again and feeling right Till I'm home again and feeling right I wanna be home again and feeling right Natural Woman Loving You Forever

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Dogfood #1851031 03/29/07 03:55 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	RB06, MV, Link to Meatloaf....Gifted powerful vocals. Moving Did I Say That

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851032 03/29/07 04:01 PM
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Rock__ Member R Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,530	Thanks skylites! I didn't even know there was a video for it. I just like the song. Cool! Married 23 yrs WW-46 Me- 47 DD18 DD11 Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006 Too many other D-Days to remember

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