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Marriage Builders Forums General Discussion Other Topics PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS!

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Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! carnation3 #1851133 04/01/07 11:23 PM
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Rock__ Member R Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,530	Quote ((( RB ))) I am sure that Sky will post the link for you. Actually, it is not the love that stinks... it is the hurting and betrayal part. love is good ~ you are good It's kinda like -- I tell people that I am afraid to fly. But in reality, it is not the flying I am afraid of - it is the crashing Same thing here... it is not the love that hurts.. it is the crashing - does that make sense ?? Thanks Carn, you are right. I was just in a crummy mood last night. Rock Married 23 yrs WW-46 Me- 47 DD18 DD11 Dday #1 - Oct. 8 2006 Too many other D-Days to remember

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Rock__ #1851134 04/02/07 12:01 AM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Eph, Right back at ya....Well done! I learned so much! RB... I know your were have a crummy day. We all have them. Hey guys I applaud your efforts in trying! The Proclaimers I'm Gonna Be Johnny Depp I would walk 500 hundred miles

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851135 04/02/07 10:08 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	RB, Ckekin, in with ya! Hope today was a better day 4 U. Look at all the work & progress your making in tryin to make it work!!!Adapation takes awhile. Your changing the cycle for the better. Here's your song & a couple of more... J. Geils Band Love Stinks How about a little Rhythm/Blues. B.B. King & Buddy Guy I Can't Quit You Baby REM. Everybody hurts sometimes

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851136 04/02/07 10:18 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Ranconteurs Steady, As She Goes...

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851137 04/02/07 11:50 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Barbara Streisand The Way We Were Barbara Streisand What Are You Doing For The Rest Of Your Life? Barbara Streisand Children Will Listen Tony Bennett& Barbara Streisand Smile

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851138 04/03/07 09:23 AM
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carnation3 Member C Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 245	Babs may be a little.... um... controlling... but the lady sure can sing... thanks Sky !! Actually registered ~ Jan 2005

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! carnation3 #1851139 04/03/07 11:18 AM
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Dogfood Member D Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 541	During this time, when you feel like reminiscing and having a good cry, these songs do the trick. Kiss Me - Sixpence None the Richer The above is from an anime and I put that one because the girl in the first scene is about the cutest anime charecter on the face of the planet. Reminds me of my W. Baby Love Child - Pizzicato Five This is a Japanese pop band...but the song is in English. BS - 36 (me) WS - 25 D-Day - 01/08/07(EA), 02/02/07 (PA) Divorce Final - 09/14/07 "It's only the fairy tale they believe"

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Dogfood #1851140 04/03/07 03:51 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Carn, too funny...Nickelback wasn't around then. Lol... More Nickelback for ya! Nickel Back Figured You Out

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851141 04/03/07 04:06 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	DF Awe- Those were soooo such sweet songs. Nice to have pleasant reminders of your W. Thought Baby love child was so adorable! If you enjoy animates & wrks for ya...the music of Legaecy fits much of the similar theme...songs are beautiful. Thxs for sharing. Legaecy (series) Empathy

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851142 04/03/07 04:12 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Had to repost Daughtry, as for some it isn't over & for some it is... ( I just love this song ) Each to their own unique situation. Adding a few more... Healing comes in cycles. Like the onion effect, layer here & layer there. Daughtry It’s Not Over Elton John Rocket Man Lucy In The Sky With Diamonds Star Ship Sara Dire Straits Tunnel of Love Romeo& Juliet Sultans of Swing George Thorogood Who Do You Love Shinedown Save Me Tom Petty Don’t come around here no more Saving Grace

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851143 04/03/07 05:34 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Back to Country...WHO KNOWS! WHAT WILL HAPPEN NEXT! Patricia Ryan Make Up Your Mind Gretchen Wilson Come to Bed Gretchen Wilson Home wrecker Kenny Chesney& Gretchen Wilson Hurts So Good Chely Wright Shutup & Drive

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851144 04/03/07 05:59 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Faith Hill & Tim Mc Graw Like We've Never Loved At All It's Your Love I Need You Let's Make Love

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851145 04/03/07 06:06 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Closure Look Out Below

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851146 04/03/07 06:47 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Bonnie Tyler It's A Heart Ache Turnaround Total Eclipse of the Heart

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851147 04/03/07 06:55 PM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Superman Returns! (Gotta Have Superman Included) Hope... There Goes My Hero

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851148 04/03/07 09:53 PM
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carnation3 Member C Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 245	Sky, it is so sweet of you to do put all this music in here for everyone... I will be gone for awhile. My H is a truck driver and I am going to ride around Texas and see the bluebonnets... See you when I return... Actually registered ~ Jan 2005

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851149 04/03/07 10:27 PM
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Dogfood Member D Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 541	Quote DF Awe- Those were soooo such sweet songs. Nice to have pleasant reminders of your W. Thought Baby love child was so adorable! If you enjoy animates & wrks for ya...the music of Legaecy fits much of the similar theme...songs are beautiful. Thxs for sharing. Legaecy (series) Empathy Thanks for the link. The song is fitting. The two I posted get me choked up whenever I listen to them. BS - 36 (me) WS - 25 D-Day - 01/08/07(EA), 02/02/07 (PA) Divorce Final - 09/14/07 "It's only the fairy tale they believe"

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Dogfood #1851150 04/03/07 11:09 PM
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Eph525 Member E Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,306	Third Day Cry Out To Jesus - Mountain of God - Just heard this one for the first time and thought it was very moving Love Heals Your Heart - Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids. Plan A Thread Plan B Thread Ephesians 5:25 - Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! Eph525 #1851151 04/04/07 12:59 AM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	Carn, Thankyou, for your kind compliment. Wanting to create a bit montage of human experinces& expressions with all the diversity on this forum. Convalescence phase. Grrrreat! Heading out on the open road trip with your hubby. Hope this time opens up a special healing for the both of you! Make it extra special relaxing & safe time!!! Hope you get a great hat& get some honky tonk dancin in! I know what song you'll be playin on the juke box. Prayin for you both! This song came to mind for you! Dixie Chicks Wide Open Spaces.

Re: PLAN A /PLAN B GRIEF/ COPING SONGS! skylites #1851152 04/04/07 01:18 AM
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OP skylites Member S Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 445	DF, Your welcome! Well, no kidding. I can see why you would get choked up with those two tender sensitive songs. Endearing and loss. Your both are such a young couple. I am sorry. Difficult to endure all of this when one is so saturated with hurt& dissappointment. Glad the song fit for you...in your private grief space.

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