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#1851496 03/28/07 06:46 AM
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BigK,
Notice a b-day cake before your name today... is it your B-day?

If it is HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR BIGK HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU...

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BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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Thanks Still.

Yes it is my Birthday. 47. Can't believe it.


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Mine too. Hope you have a great Birthday, BigK. You're as old as you feel. I don't feel a day over 75!


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Incontinence pants in the post , ya duffer !


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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR DH59 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.

PS. How do you get the ckae next to your name?

Still

PSPS how old are you DH59?

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BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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Thanks - and Happy Birthday DH59


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In your profile - you can put your birthday.


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PSPS how old are you DH59?

Thanks Still.

48! Just updated my sig line.

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Thanks... I think I will

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BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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HBD you two!

Many happy returns!


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Thanks Kimmy


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Oh, It's something to celebrate! I like to celebrate!

Happy b-day guys!

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Hope you have the greatest day!


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Just wanted to come here and do this "proper"...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BK and DH59!

Where can I get one of those Birthday cakes?

NOW

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47 ????

You look days younger !

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Pep <~~~ just jealous

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Thanks folks. Even Pep.

BK<~~~ j j/k Pep


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Happy Birthday Big K!

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Thanks Marsh


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