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I have been married for about 6 months. I am 25 and my husband is 27. He gets laid off in the winter months. We took our honeymoon in the end of January. It was great. We were going to work on having kids, until I caught him hitting on women online two weeks after our honeymoon. I confronted him and he said I was controlling and negative. Mind you he is not working and has depression problems. So I have changed and he admits it. But he is still spending tons of time with his friends and still talking to women online. What to do?
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Joined: Nov 2004
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Ask your question on the general questions on the infidelity forum. You will get many more replies then just mine.
I refer you to that forum because that is what your husband is doing, being unfaithful.
Mr. G
"You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows," Bob Dylan
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Although he is actually being unfaithful...he may not see it that way. Maybe he thinks these are stupid online women that mean nothing to him, and he's just playing around...so what?
I think it's important to understand his perspective...even if his perspective may seem off-base.
In terms of what to do?
Bring in help. Church. Counseling. Books. CD's.
That's what I suggest.
Best,
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