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Is it normal for a Husband to talk to women online? It's on a radio show online. He tells women how great they look, some are married, some are not. He also chats with some of them. He can't ever tell me that I am pretty, or that I look good, but he can tell a perfect stranger. Any advice?
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IT IS WHAT IT FEELS, INAPPROPRIATE. YOUR HUSBAND WILL SHOW HIMSELF THAT HE IS FOOLISH AS HE TRIES TO ESTABLISH A REPORE WITH THESE WOMEN. HE IS ENGAGING IN AFFAIR ACTIVITY OPENING HIMSELF UP TO THE ENCOUNTER HE IS UNDOUBTEDLY SEARCHING FOR. HE IS THE STATISTIC THAT IS CALLED DIVORCE. HE CAN NEITHER SEE IT, ADMIT IT NOR ACCEPT IT, YET IT IS TRUE. READ THE STORIES ON THE INFIDELITY FORUMS TO SEE YOUR STORY OVER AND OVER AND OVER ALL THE TIME ENDING IN DISASTER.
SORRY FOR BEING SO BLUNT, BUT IT IS TRUE NONETHELESS. IF AN OPEN MARRIAGE WITH MULTIPLE PARTNERS APPEALS TO YOU THEN ALLOW HIM TO CONTINUE ON THIS PATH BUT BE FOREWARNED THAT HIS ACTIONS WILL LIKELY RESULT IN A SECRET ENCOUNTER WITH ANOTHER WOMAN WITH YOU THE VICTIM ON THE SIDELINE.
MR. G
"You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows," Bob Dylan
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That is very inappropriate. Period. You should have a serious talk with him because it seems he is jeopardizing your marriage.
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Yeah, my husband did same for a while and i caught him, he said he didn't do it often, he just felt curious. our marriage at the time was awful. He is ashamed and recognises it was inmature and childlish. will never know if he engaged somebody on the net or not, i don't want to know but kind of believe him for many reasons. what your husband is doing hurts you more because he doesn't treat you nicely. do you have time just for the two of you?, do you get to go out and do fun things together?. good luck
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My wife meets guys in chat rooms, she now uses a webcam for the guys to look at. She doesn't think it's shameful at all because her purpose is to meet new people. I let her know that it's hurtful to me that she does that. She doesn't care really because she thinks I'm insecure. Is there an alternative to meet people that doesn't involve with ALL GUYS!?!
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