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#1856416 04/04/07 10:47 PM
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Hi Owl....

I have read some of your posts in the past 6 months with interest since your W had an online affair like my H did.

I have tried to find your earlier posts from when you first came here but I have been unsuccessful. I tried the archives but I must be doing something wrong.

Do you have any links to your old posts? If so, I would love it if you would share them with me.

Thanks for your time.


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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*jumping up and down and waving at Owl*

"Hey over here.."


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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Sorry Mopey...musta missed your post the first time. I'll go find where I posted my story at here...remember, I came here well after my wife and were started down the recovery road. Most of my questions were learning to deal with things once our recovery was started. But, I'd also posted here to help out those who'd been through a similar sitch. It's more common than you'd realize...MUCH more common. Do any online gaming for a good while, you'll see that emotional affairs run rampant in MMORPG's and such. I know of nearly 20 marriages now that have been affected by this type of issue.

At any rate, I'll find my story and post the link here in a few for you. After that, if you've got any specific questions, I'll do my best to help. I will be away for the next three days...that might limit my responses for that time.

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Mopey-

Per your request...most of the details of how it happened. Not so much on how we got into recovery. Again, any questions, I'll try to answer.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1

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Owl.....you rawk.

I appreciate you pulling that up for me. I'm on my way out the door and will read it later. I'm glad I caught you before you left town.

I just may have some q's for you and will wait til you get back.

Thanks again and have a good trip.


Husband was unfaithful to me before and after our marriage, at least 7 times. I found out 13 yrs into the marriage. Trickle truth for an entire year. Several different d-days, so it was more like a d-year. Difficult recovery.



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Back...so if you've got any questions about my situation Mopey, I'd be fine with answering what I can.


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