Hi All,

I posted in the JFO-I am about 7 weeks out and things are starting to settle down for me. My WH still works with the OW and has been making VERY small attempts to look for another job-he has put his resume on some boards and still has a few to go bit has not actively been looking on a consistent basis. He is actually up for a promotion at his current job so I understand why he doesn't want to leave but he also says he will miss his "firend" (the OW) if he has to leave. Now mind you there has been no contact-he has been very good about calling me, etc and if she goes to a group lunch he doesn't go-there was one time he arranged a group lunch and at the last minute she went and he called me immediatly after to tell me.

So do you think I should push him harder about getting a new job-I don't think we can try if he is aorund her-will he ever come out of the fog?

Thnaks everyone!
Debbi

Of course he'll miss his girlfriend, but he'll need to get over it for you to reconnect. I don't know how many more people you need to ask. NO CONTACT!