Have suspicions and want to either verify or know that I'm just being paranoid . Think some one that works for my husband might be trying to get closer than working relationship.
We've been in recovery for 4 yrs. and over all ,things pretty good . But I guess I've forgiven but not forgotten
Just don't have the money to pay full price for P.I. but was hoping someone in Dallas (Coppell area)might know of someone that would take 3-4 hrs. this Thurs night to do some sluething .
I know ur thinking , if u suspect "trust ur gut" !! And ur right but NEED to know for sure before moving forward .
"Knowledge is power"

Call a gentlemen named Steve @ 1-214-529-2431. He works that area. Good P.I. -

Have u used him yourself and do u know how much he charges

I was going to post Jayban's email address, but he already responded. Yes, Jayban has used him and was pleased with the results. He was even less expensive than I imagined he would have been (from what Jayban tells me).

Have set up the deal with Steve- HE SOUNDED VERY NICE AND KNOWLEDGABLE . It's happening Thurs night and already feeling sleezy about the whole thing . Thinking now about what to do with info he gives me -kind of scarey .Went through this 5 yrs ago and never thought I'd be here again
Part of me is hoping I'm being paranoid but I'm trusting "the gut"

I would read up around here to prepare yourself as to what to do. Email me your contact info (jmwc95@yahoo.com), and I'll see if Jayban would be willing to walk you through this because he recently went through exposure and is from the Dallas area as well. He's in plan B right now, but he has followed the MB plan to a tee.

OMG . -had the p.i.there all Fri. night and nothing .I called Steve(p.i.) as soon as i talked to H about 11 and steve askd if I had just talked to H bcause he had been on the phone . Steve saw aboslutely nothing. H called like he normally would throughout the day Sat. ,when function was over Sat. night and when he was back in room

Here's the clincher... I checked his voicemail at his offic this afternoon and she had left him a message saying "call me when u can talk...doesn't say " hi this is blah blah', so there is definitely to much familiarity between them ,don't u agree . Nothing about having good time or anything suggesting they had been together at any time over the 2 days in Dallas but I'm not happy !!

Hate to bring it up as soon as he gets home and really don't want him to know I can get into his voicemail at office . He knows I can get into cell mail so that is no big deal There are other messages she's left- can't remember if on cell or office( a few wks. back)
Any ideas how to approach it -really need advice -even if she's the aggresive one ,I'm wanting it to stop Now

THOUGHT ABOUT CALLING HER -she works for him in another state . Or do I sit on this til he has trip planned for there (could be a long time)- don't know that I can keep my cool that long
Any advice?????