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#1857367 04/08/07 10:32 AM
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Reading through mustangdriver's trainwreck reminded me of Heartsore. I think about him from time to time. If you want to read heartsore's story, it can be searched. His wife used selected posts from this support group to help her screw heartsore around, so it would appear at the time.

Specifically posts by Mr. Wondering and me. That makes me sad and a bit put off that something I said could be used by a lawyer to damage someone.

I often think about heartsore and wonder what happened to him and his kids. He seemed like a really good guy and didn't deserve what was handed to him so far as I know or could tell by his posts.

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Larry,

some time ago somebody asked him, on somebody else's thread, how he was doing. He answered that he did not want to hijack the thread and to please put the question on his own thread. Never saw anything after that and I figured they got in touch by e-mail. You were active on his thread, why don't you ask on there. Maybe he will come back and post something....


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Any updates on Heartsore's situation? BTW, where is his original thread...was it deleted? I can't find it.

Also, did I miss an update where Heartsore's story was revealed to be totally made up and fake? I'm starting to think it was.

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C29:

The thread has been deleted.

Legal ramifications and all, not surprising.

But, where did you hear this:

"did I miss an update where Heartsore's story was revealed to be totally made up and fake? I'm starting to think it was."

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C29:

Interesting.

So it was all just to blow up a finanacial firm?

Cool.

Tommorrow is going to be interesting.

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In his original thread, he posted a link to a photo of his daughter. Does anyone else remember this? Several people "oohed" and "ahhed" over it. Me being the nosey person I was, I changed the end of the URL to different numbers to see if I would hit upon other photos perhaps of him or his wife. I know, that was sneaky of me, but I would never use anything I found for ill intent...it just me entertaining myself & my curiousity. Anyway, I did find several pics of him and the wife ... all looking stunningly like Mr/MrsW now that I see their photos. I think their daughter is also the one that Heartsore posted (which seems a little reckless now, in retrospect).


Nope.

He never posted a pic of his little girl.

You're mistaken.

I remember that Mrs. W posted a cute pic of her daughter w/ a watermelon, after I posted a pic of a baby eating a watermelon.....

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Ok, well then that explains it!! There goes the fodder for a made-for-tv-movie. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Mega-apologies to the Wonderings!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

Now retreating back to my nosey lurker status....

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Hi Marsh!

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But, where did you hear this:
"did I miss an update where Heartsore's story was revealed to be totally made up and fake? I'm starting to think it was."

I didn't hear it...I got slapped in the face with it when I looked at the MB photo album tonight. I recognized one of the pics that the Wonderings posted as themselves...as a photo that was in Heartsore's album.

In his original thread, he posted a link to a photo of his daughter. Does anyone else remember this? Several people "oohed" and "ahhed" over it. Me being the nosey person I was, I changed the end of the URL to different numbers to see if I would hit upon other photos perhaps of him or his wife. I know, that was sneaky of me, but I would never use anything I found for ill intent...it just me entertaining myself & my curiousity. Anyway, I did find several pics of him and the wife ... all looking stunningly like Mr/MrsW now that I see their photos. I think their daughter is also the one that Heartsore posted (which seems a little reckless now, in retrospect).

I'm just really trying to figure out why they would make up this whole Heartsore story. It must have gotten tiresome after awhile...which is why he developed "legal problems" and couldn't post anymore. I just don't get the motivation. Maybe there's another explanation for all this and I'm just not seeing it.

P.S. I bumped a Heartsore22 thread which I thought made a point for me but I realized my point was invalid so I deleted my post in that thread...

WHOA THERE NELLIE...OMG...I'm gonna clear up the confusion, but I gotta say that I am more than a little angry that someone would access MY personal photobucket album...but really "my bad" for not making sure back then that the album was set to private...ANYWAY...

Cherishing29, *I* Mrs. Wondering posted that pic of *OUR* DD on Heartsore's thread...As I recall it was the one of her eating watermelon...wearing pigtails...yada, yada, yada...YOU mistakenly thought you read that it was HS's dd...NOPE-WRONG-It was our DD, and there are many people here that have met us and can attest to that...HS's dd's are younger than our DD anyway...

I also happen to KNOW that Heartsore and his story are VERY real...Mr. W and he still talk on the phone occasionally...I've also seen pics of he and his family...Anyway, way to try and start a rumor and smear campaign Cherishing29...WHATEVER! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Hi Marsh!

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Hi LG!

What adorable noses you and the Mrs. have! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

LOL

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I didn't hear it...I got slapped in the face with it when I looked at the MB photo album tonight. I recognized one of the pics that the Wonderings posted as themselves...as a photo that was in Heartsore's album.

You're joking, right?


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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ok, I see MrsW explained and cherishing apologized for her false accusation. Cherishing, I have MET the W's DD and the W's and I assure you Heartsore did not post her picture as his own. DR HARLEY has met the W's. HEartsore's kids are very young. I happen to know from outside sources that Heartsores story was very real.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Thank you for clarifing that.

LG

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I will return to our clown show now.

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I deleted my post since it was stupid...but of course it's quoted in subsequent messages so people will see it anyway.

I apologize, Mr & Mrs Wondering. I guess you can take comfort in the fact that all I accomplished with this was to out my own bad nosey snooping behavior. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />

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Cherishing29...

I have a question...Why are you bumping old threads tonight and then deleting your posts to them???

Mrs. W

P.S. I do appreciate the apology...


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I bumped two old threads (including this one). I guess it's pretty obvious why I bumped this one...and I already explained why I deleted my first post in this thread (because it was stupid). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

I bumped the other old thread because I thought it proved a point for me ...but then later realized it actually didn't at all prove my point so I deleted my post that was making that (invalid) point. Is that a convoluted enough explanation? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Thanks for accepting my apology; I know I'd be mad as a hornet if I were on the receiving end of this.

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I bumped two old threads (including this one). I guess it's pretty obvious why I bumped this one...and I already explained why I deleted my first post in this thread (because it was stupid). <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

I bumped the other old thread because I thought it proved a point for me ...but then later realized it actually didn't at all prove my point so I deleted my post that was making that (invalid) point. Is that a convoluted enough explanation? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Thanks for accepting my apology; I know I'd be mad as a hornet if I were on the receiving end of this.

I am accepting your apology, but I must admit that I'm still pretty sore over it right now-so I'm posting to get it all out...I know myself well enough to know that I'll get over it though...

You know, it would have been real easy for you to figure this out on your own too...(1) You could have actually READ the post at the time, and (2)The NAME of the photobucket account back then was JWONDERING-that was right in the URL that you manipulated...It's just bizarre, and my head is spinning right now...and I feel a strange that you've seen LOTS of our dd's pics as well family pics without our knowledge...It just feels creepy...sigh...I'll live...

Mrs. W


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