Background on my sitch:

see "new here-divorce pending"

Just looked out my window toward my neighbors house--guess what i saw?

My WW and OM coming over to neighbor's house for Easter dinner!!!

The neighbor (and her H) have been friends of ours for years and my W used to walk over there often for a cocktail or on holidays (often while I cooked dinner for us). It was no problem and I was fine with it because my W and the neighbor (woman) were such good friends.

Now, she is over there having dinner with neighbor & family with her OM! These people are supposedly church going christians! Wonder if my wife has told them that she is living with him, he is still married (going through his 3rd D), and he is 17 years older than her! (Well that has to be obvious)

It is one thing for her do what she is doing with him out of my immediate vicinity, but this is beyond hurtful and disgusting! I can't believe her lack of shame!

Our D should be final soon (her choice of course); guess I'll have to move to avoid displays like this in the future...so disheartened.

ddc07

Go over and ask for a couple of eggs, or a cup of sugar....

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Yeah right...not invited, not wanted.

Have you exposed the A to them? Ongoing As should always exposed to all who can help end it, including friends.

MIM:

These are mutual friends of ours--they know me and that I live across the street. They know the man she brought to dinner is not her husband!

She exposed it herself tonight (if not before); I'm pissed these supposed good christians validated her A by having them both over for dinner!

They might know all of that. However, you're not curious as to what story your WS might have wound around the reason why she was with the OM, in order to make it more comfortable for your friends to have them over last night? WS's are exraordinary liars - an essential requirement for them to maintain their fantasy world as long as possible.



Maybe they're under the impression that the OM was your WS's knight in shining armor that rescued her from an abusive H. Who knows what story your WS has woven.