Weaver i think it was you that said, giving updates when all is going ok is a good thing too, soo...

We are doing fairly well. I wish SF was not so far and few between.

We had one bit of a problem that I did not come to talk about here, it worked out. I have discovered a new EN that seems to be incredible important to DH. For ME to keep the kitchen sink clean at all costs, regardless of where the dishes came from.

FF kindly pointed out that i should just do it!!! so i am.

DH seems to be testing me some but i'm just staying oblivious to it and i'm just cleaning the sink. i hope in some odd way it will be meaningful to him.

other than that i think a lot about aphelion's comment... "you seem to be hyper-sensitive all the time" (or something like that) and trying to understand why that is and then counteract the root cause.

i truely believe the #1 root cause is being tired. work is to stressful, I have to get myself out of that environment.

i posted about that on another thread.

love to all you MBers, FL

Thank you!

we need more, "hey, things are recovering well" stories around here