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Talk to his CO and he gonna be ordered to stay if not then his military career is over...so i feel great today. Wife found out said she mad at me because it was her fault not his and why i'm not going after her. Oh well! Anyone else have a spouse get mad/angry for contacting om job???
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i contacted the military on my ex. ( he was part time military). they told me they would talk to him, etc. he got a little bitty slap on the wrist. in fact, he was taken ow to military functions! i know they did talk to him and i think my ex was emarrassed, but that was about it. i felt good to tell the military on him simply because now they know what kind of character he has. although i am quite sure he lied to them about things. probably told them i am a nut job, etc.
of course your wife is mad! keep your eyes open and see what happens next. see if this really does keep him away from her. if she is living with him i guess that means she needs to move out huh?
you did the right thing. don't know if it will bring your wife back, but you did the right thing. how did dinner go last night?
mlhb
God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.
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You exposed the affair, and yes, every cheating spouse gets angry when their affair is exposed. She will say things that are terrible, tell you the marriage is over, she can't ever trust you again, yada yada. It doesn't matter. You are fighting to save your marriage.
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hmmm, seems to me your WW is not actually mad enough.
That's more of a reason to be concerned than if she tried to cut your head off. The less angry ones often have a cunning plan all their their own.
Keep your ear to the ground.
with prayers,
"Never forget that your pain means nothing to a WS." ~Mulan
"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
When an eel lunges out
And it bites off your snout
Thats a moray ~DS
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Well if anything else i can file a complaint and that will mess with his money and he doesn't want that...anyway. Dinner was ok talked about different things she knew i was gonna talk to his boss but didn't know when she still doesn't know i went this morning. She called today and said she not coming back to me and so on.
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SOP. The waywards have a playbook so that they won't have to think up anything original. They can't think because their heads are in the fog. Don't get upset.
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